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This is kinda silly but....
Anyway I’m kinda in a kerfunkle because I love cooking. I cook for my bf whenever he wants me to witch is basically like every other day. Recently we purchased beautiful copper pot set. Now I hate thinking about that dam pot set! We share a house with his sister and brothers. Almost every other day I have to take my time to wash my pots out after someone else used it. I’ve already approached and addressed that if u use it just please wash it out no one does! To me, that hurts my feelings because We spent our hard earned money on these not cheap pots and pans! So I need to know am I over exaggerating if I just hide them or put them up somewhere until I need them? I’m usually a kind soul and I think that’s where ppl like to get over on me. It sucks but I’m tired of waking up seeing them dirty and not clean. I’m a very neat person. Am I wrong for putting them up or should I just leave this pettiness alone?? Thanks! P.s I just made breakfast and I ran into this problem AGAIN this a.m 😩 Thursday night night they cooked the dog food in it and left it there for 3days Dirty ugh!!
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You can handle this in a few different ways.
Option 1: hide them away for your own personal use, you're not their damn slave! If they can't clean it, they don't get to use it.
Option 2: let the pots sit until someone else cleans them! Would they get ruined? Most likely. But at least now you know that you can't have good things whilst living with your siblings.
Option 3: keep going the way it is. You'll eventually burn yourself out and that'll lead to either option 1, 2 or...
Option 4: throw the damn things away. They've already got bad memories attached to them, in spite of your best efforts to make delicious, meaningful, loving meals.
You're not overreacting, they are just that lazy and inconsiderate. This isn't on you, no matter which way you choose to deal with it. They are YOUR pans! If your siblings can't respect your stuff, I question on whether or not they even respect you in general.
By the way, this is coming from a super lethargic guy, so I've been on their end. There are no excuses for this behavior.
ReplyI really like option 1 I literally hate doing this but I just can’t take seeing our hard earnings go to absolute waste. Thanks!
ReplyI'm glad to have contributed:)
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ReplyI vote for option 1 as well. Its not their stuff. They didn't buy it. They don't respect it and take good care of it. Confiscate them for your own personal use. It's not being petty, you already gave them a chance by sharing them, and they proved themselves unworthy of that gesture. If they wanna cook in nice copper pots, let them buy some their damn selves.
ReplyThese people have no respect for you or your pots. You will be much better off hiding them in your room and only you using them.
ReplyI honestly feel the same plus why would they not wash them out. I mean that’s the least they could do 😷🤢
ReplyIf you bought the pots with your money, it is your pots. You can do whatever you want with it and you don't have to share it with other people.
You are not overreacting. I would be angry if people do not take care of my belongings.
ReplyThank you so much guys for your thoughts and advice on this topic. I thought I was really over exaggerating because I even explained this to my boyfriend and he did say something about it but they don’t even respect what he says about it either and that really bothers me! I have never disrespected or abuse things of theirs. I am a very neat and clean person and I cannot stand when there’s uncleanliness around me it is my biggest pet peeve. Like seriously 😒
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