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I'm a girl. I entered college and started to study engineering. My dad wanted me to do Civil Engineering. But I wanted to do Electrical Engineering. Oh god, I don't like civil engineering. So I explained to my dad and applied for electrical engineering. But he changed it to civil engineering by talking to coordinators and he told me to do civil engineering. He said that's good for me. We argued, got mad. finally, I had to do that for the sake of peace at the home. it is so much boring and now I'm in my final year. now my life is disgusting. when I come to think about the job that I have to do, I want to give up my life. What should I do to be happy again?? please tell me.
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You need to live your own life. Also, express that to him. Does the thought of changing your path back to electrical engineering feel better, even though it's more work?
ReplyThanks! I already expressed it to him. No point.
ReplyInteresting that your first sentence was "I'm a girl". Why would that matter? No matter what you were born to do, you must follow your own instincts. Shame on your dad for not realizing this. If you try to make a bird swim, it will never work. If you try to make a dolphin fly, it would never work. They are striving and beautiful in the environment they were made for.
When you say "I had to do it for the sake of peace" know that you chose to do that for your dads peace, at the expense of your own. Change your major. Period. Change it. If you have to extend your time in college to do it, so be it. You absolutely MUST be happy within your own soul.
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ReplyThink of trying to go in the direction of electrical engineering from a civils side... Like building wind turbines or hydropower
ReplyThat may be a good idea. Thanks!
ReplyAnother bad parent! He should realize this is your life and not his. He is an arse hole going behind your back. Do what you want, not what he wants.
ReplyHe can't control what you do. You are not entitled to study something you don't want to. What a gross move by him. If it is what you desire, go study electrical engineering.
Replyyou should find something else to do , see we have lot of talent inside us . just find your own way out , you can to something great just believe in your self.
ReplyDon't refer to yourself as a girl. Refer to yourself as an adult, woman, female, grown up, young adult, person. You were a girl when you were ten.
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