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i don’t want to have sex with my boyfriend. i love him so much, i really do but i don’t want to have sex with him. he doesn’t turn me on. i’ve tried everything and i don’t even get wet or anything... it’s just with him because i think of having sex with other guys and i get horny just by thinking about it but when it comes to him: nothing. i don’t even enjoy kissing him anymore. i’ve told him that we should try different things, i’ve bought toys, lub and i’ve tried to do it drunk and.... nothing.
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ReplyHave ya'll considered a sex therapist?
ReplyI've had different, but similar issues... i hated having sex with this boy who i really liked. Meanwhile, I've had a lot more positive experiences with people i trusted even if they weren't hot (like ??? some of the boys I've slept with are sus). For me, it was about the pressure and expectations i built up. I experience some slight social anxiety still. You probs know him well so chances are your situation is completely different. Putting pressure on yourself is just something to consider.
ReplySexual attraction is one of the many things necessary for a healthy relationship. If your gut feeling is telling you it's not there, it's not there. You can't force it if the chemistry isn't there. Sounds like you are postposing the inevitable.
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