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Okay here's the thing... stop comparing my past to where I am now. How I handled things before can also change how I handle it now. I'm always told well "why are you stressing out this year? You should be improving and not stressing out. You were able to graduate last year from high school while juggling 3 jobs and actually going to school unlike now where you only have one job and you have school online"... Well listen, I was also struggling before and just because I was able to surpass that does not mean I am stress free.. Like NOOOOO...and stop comparing your university experience with mine. Like don't ask me "Why are you having such a hard time? Me, I even had a full time job and my courses were probably even harder than yours" I don't think you understand that all of us are different then at the end of the conversation when I point out that you're trying to discredit my efforts and how stressful the class are, you will always pull that line "No, I'm not, I'm just saying". Gosh!!!!! I already feel bad about myself and feel guilty for stressing out instead of enjoying college and I can't even express my frustrations now? coz you think that it's supposed to be easy? and also I'm tired of hearing "Why did you join that? You should just focus on your studies" Like dude I am but allow me to actually have fun, I even joined a club that grants me credit and just because you see that I'm having fun from it does not mean its insignificant, I don't want to look back and think that I missed out on fun coz I also paid for the college experience not just the education...You always told me that I am young and should be responsible, it's not like I'm getting drunk or wasted LMAO. College should be fun and I'm trying to make it fun, that's the only way I can destress from my "easy courses" like jeez. Lastly, I am systematic that's why I finish my assignment that piles up everyday. You're always telling me that during the night, I should just relax coz that's what you used and is currently doing...like again, NOT EVERYONE IS THE SAME, I could have taken the same courses and path that you did and still get a different result smh. Like legit, sometimes ask why is she struggling and not, Ughh she's struggling coz I mean if you're not going to help me with my actual problem...then just move on and don't even try degrading me
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