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im a 17 year old girl and have been struggling with this for a pretty long time now, and was wondrering if anyone had advice for what i could do to stop thinking this way. im scared of weekends and holidays, cause i know everyone will be out partying while im doing nothing. its halloween today for instance and my ”friends” are all going to parties. i have a boyfriend and im probably going to his house, but ill probably be in a bad mood cuz i think everyone else is having a lot more fun than me. i hate myself for feeling like this and its also very mean to my boyfriend. i wish i could just stop caring about that other people are prtying while im at home. but i really wish i would get invited to parties and have fun and be like myself. ugh i dont know what to do.
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I’m sorry you feel this way. I’m quite a bit older than you, but there are times I still feel this way. I think a lot of time our relationships cycle. We place importance in the relationships at different times and don’t take time to enjoy them together. For instance, we dedicate our time and energy to our boyfriends and when we don’t have boyfriends, we focus on our friends. When we have boyfriends, our friends kind of fade into the back because we have decided to make our relationship the priority. That’s ok. It happens.
Is there a way for you, your boyfriend, and your friends to enjoy time together? If not, maybe you can try to plan some time with your friends and then time with your boyfriend. we don’t have to shut something out to show someone they are important to us. Keep your head up, keep smiling. You’ll find the happiness around you.
ReplyWhy don't you have a party and invite people to it.
ReplyI haven't gone out tonight either, I don't on most occasions and stuff even if my friends do, I look at this as maturity!!
I would rather spend my evenings with my boyfriend or on my own sometimes the best compony is your own.....
Enjoy your nights however you want too..
I am 21 female but I would rather spend time saving money and building for my future.
ReplyWe must create the life we want to live. We can't wait for "our ship to come in" we must swim out to it. Start planning parties! What is stopping YOU from organizing get togethers? Even during Covid, they can be outside, online, whatever works. Figure it out. Why are you sitting around waiting to be invited? YOU can be the one doing the inviting! If this sounds overwhelming, start small, maybe invite two or three other people, and then build up from there. After awhile, YOU will be living the life you crave! FEAR < The biggest crusher of dreams.
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