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Is it really so wrong to want someone to love you?
You know why they say it’s worst to be with someone and feel alone than to just be with no one and feel alone?
Because when you’re with someone and they make you feel alone it feels like rejection. It makes you feel worse.
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Unfortunately, yes, it is wrong to want someone to love you. I know that may sound cold, but it's the truth.
If someone does love you then great! If you love someone else, that's great too. But needing it just kills it.
You can think of it this way, imagine you're drowning out at sea. Someone comes to rescue you and your response is to flail your way above the water. You don't realize it, but you're dragging them down, putting their head underwater, to keep yourself afloat.
It's sad to realize this, because you realize how your mental illness effects those who get close to you.
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