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lol i have a crush on my neighbor and he's so funny and sweet and all and i just am so happy being in his presence
i wish he felt the same about me, but i'm not sure. how do i know if he likes me back? i can't just ask him bc i'm so socially awkward and i don't wanna mess things up. i would rather stay friends than have him reject me.
not to mention his sister is my friend, and i wouldn't wanna hurt her. Anyway, if y'all have any tips to tell if he might like me? or maybe if there's at least a 0.000001% chance?
I just really love him and he makes life so much more enjoyable. no matter what mood i am in, when i get to see him the day always gets better. i just wish he knew. i wish he was secretly crushing on me. thought i know that's not true
what should i do? 🥺
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Um, how do your conversations go? Like what type of guy is he? Also, that's super cute. Does your friend not like the idea of it orrrr? I have a similar story with my brother's best friend so I have some small advice.
ReplyWe have a lot of inside jokes/references that other people don't get. Often I'm too afraid to talk to him/look at him immediately when I first see him, but after a while someone will say something that we can make a joke about or say something. He is pretty reserved, and really funny! He really likes football and video games. I haven't told my friend, because I don't know how she will react. What's your story?
ReplyWell it's been 10 years for me so I haven't gotten that far. I just drop hints and talk to her calmy and make sure, to be honest about you're friendship too.💁✨
If you can make an effort to start conversations about football and video games or maybe try to ask to do it yk.🥺 Have some confidence because guys like it apparently. I wish you luck, reply if you get anywhere I got some friends who might have better advice.
ReplyI wish you the best of luck! You sound like a great person. 🙃
I... am not the most confident person... (aka i'm very shy and bad at conversations) 😂 but yes, I am working on that. I've gotten a lot better, but I still suck at conversations :/
I haven't gotten much further yet, I don't get to see him too much because of corona, but I do have his contact and I text him pretty often 😂 Most of the time I'm the one who starts the conversation, but ever so often he will.
Talk to you soon! <3 thx again ☺️
ReplyThank you😂The thing is he's so oblivious and even though we've full-on made out, he thinks I don't like him 🙄😂. You sound pretty amazing too. I kinda enjoy helping you with this cause I am super outgoing and crazy, the pov difference is nice to see.
It's impressive you are getting better at conversations, I never stay on track with it. You don't have to be confident like crazy then, sorry if that came off forceful. Just make sure your self-confidence about it is nice and smooth.😌💅✨
I mean you are making an effort, that's good. Yeah, covid fucked the jazz up I get it.😂 What are the conversations he starts like? Like is it a good convo or like small talk?🤔
Hmu when you can! No problem🥺✨
ReplyI haven't been here for a while, sorry! You weren't forceful, dw. Our coversations (mostly over text) are quite hilarious. I look back on them and honestly, they could become comedy skits XD I get really playful and silly around him. However, in person, we basically avoid each other. I feel like this is my fault, and it kind of is, but neither of us knows how to start OR carry a convo. So we just stand there awkwardly, and usually I will talk to one of his sibling or smth. He has two sisters (one of them is my age and my friend, the other one is like a little sister to me). One time his sister (my age) and I were playing a card game or smth, and I said something, and she goes "you're like my brother. You guys should date." she said it in a joking way, but boy that caught me off guard. I tried to hide my blushing and just laugh it off, but I wonder, 'what if she knows?'
Annyywayyy, we do talk a lot, pretty much every day, however I am still the one that starts most of the conversations, whether I have something to talk about or not. When he starts, it's usually him sending me something that we share a reference in. Often I find me telling myself that he doesn't even care about me as a friend, but recently my oh-so-amazing-best-friend-in-the-entire-world reminded me that he wouldn't spend that much time or put in as much care as he does if he didn't like me in some way. She told me how in all the screenshots of my and my crushes' texts that I've showed her, the coversations is so "real and pure and raw." I am so truly grateful for this friend, and for you, as I try to sort through my feelings. I've decided to let things go as they were meant to go, and I will be happy with the result no matter what. <3
ReplyAwwwww that's super cute. But your friend is right, you guys sound like you'd be adorable together. I think you should just try to talk to your friend and figure out if she is okay with it. You'll never know unless you try and you'll regret it if you don't. Awww thank you, I'm glad I could help. Also, you guys are probably so awkward with each other because you text more than anything.
Replyyour comments give me hope <3 maybe he does like me, maybe he doesn't, i'm just gonna life life n see how things go! B) ty <3
ReplyOmg dude Idk if you’re going to see this it’s literally been 2 years but I just rediscovered this and figured it’d be cool to do an update soooo yay
Okay SO nothing actually happened BUUT it’s okay bc guess what ✨i actually like girls too✨ wow actually i haven’t had a crush on a guy since him lmao
alsk my self confidence is literally so so much better now and i wanted to say thank you oml life is so much better now 🥹
and i still havent been in a relationship (or even kissed anyone 😅) but i try not to let that bother me, im only young still so no rush right?
anyways i hope you’re doing well if u even see this and it was fun to read thru this conversation XD have a great day :)
ReplyAsk him over to your place for coffee and wear something kind of sexy and perfume and give him a sort of vibe like you might be coming on to him. Then see if he picks up on the hint. If not just be friends with him and keep hoping.
ReplyUhm I'm not that kind of person :/
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