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My mom ruined my little sister. She used to be so bright and happy and nice all the time and now she's nothing. She was so sweet when she was little. She liked to make people cards and drawings when they were sad. I remember one time our old neighbor had gotten a divorce so he was really sad and so she gave him a flower to make him feel better. It was one of those yellow weed flowers and now everytime I see one I think of how she used to be. I miss her. She was so innocent and happy
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gosh i wish my older sister was like your sister i friggin wish mine would die because she abused me so much....lucky...but im sorry about your sister, did she change the way she acted because of your mom? I hope you can spend lots of time with her no matter how she is :)
ReplyThats really sad. Can I just say my mom also sort of ruined me? I used to be very happy, cheerful and caring. But when I was 6 everything started to change, my mom started to get ridiculous and hit me and emtionally/physically/verbally abuse me the whole time for 6 years (at least the physical part stop after 6 years). The emotional and verbal part I learned to close off and isolate myself from everyone and everything.
My dad knew its wrong but instead of confronting my mom, he chose to distant himself and brainwash me that "adversity in childhood is good". Really fuck that shit it makes no sense at all.
Pupils in my school knew how my parents treated me, even the teachers, that makes me very difficult to blend in.
In the end I became so distant and aloof to everything. My very few closed friends are surprised that I could actually make it through my childhood.
I am sharing not because I need help, I have passed that stage. I am still sad, and there are still anger and resentment at times. And the sense of unfairness. But I am recovering.
My greatest learning is that you have to admit, accept and process all the emotions when you are hurt, if not at once then gradually. And my best friend helped me by companionship. Whenever I felt too emotional, and whatever I share with her, I know I will be understood, and not judged It might sound plain but having someone to be there for you changed a lot, and I am so grateful for having such a good friend who would stick by the whole time, even when I felt so down and self doubt. I was in such a bad shape at my worst time I spent 2 weeks staying in my room doing nothing but crying. She didnt shy away like all my family abd other friends did. Sometimes thr best thing to do is to dhoe your support and help.
ReplyAll children lose their innocence as they grow up and learn about life. When my son was little there was a man who lived up the road who was sick in bed. My son wanted me to invite him to our place for Christmas dinner. I explained that the man couldn't even get dressed. My son said, "That's alright. He can wear his pyjamas here." I told his wife and she laughed and said my son was lovely. I doubt it would have been your mother who changed your sister. It is life that changes everyone. My daughter was a sweet little girl too. You wouldn't want to know the bitch now.
ReplyIf this is my ‘sister’ you never loved me because if you did you wouldn’t let me suffer when all that happened. And even afterwards I’ve given you chance after chance I don’t mean s*** to you. I miss the old me too. I miss me. I don’t know who this is. And I’m not even making someone out of this person because I don’t feel like me or anyone anymore and you never ever cared.
ReplyI wish I had a loving sister
ReplyYou never missed me when I missed you so so so much. I’m not invalidating your feelings. Your feelings are valid but you never saw mine.
ReplyI know I’m not bright and happy and nice anymore :(
ReplyYour right mum ruined me but so did dad and so did brother and the other sister and all this time you supported them or sat back and watched. I was foolish to not see what a selfish person you really are. I don’t hate you don’t say you miss me if you only saw me as an accessory to your image. You never loved the real me anyway.
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