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I feel like crying. Hear me out before laughing at the reason. I am crying inside, a cry I can show no one because the reason may seem irrelevant. When I read the news on atrocities against women, I feel sad. Until today, I was an ignorant person, engaging in day-to-day activities, pursuing my hobbies, and even enjoying my life. You know what I mean. It was when I saw the article on a survey of gay porn vs straight porn. Ya, I know. Ha! what a joke. But wait until you read the article and you realize, "Men do not hate other men, they hate women." The writer has provided evidence. If one searches straight porn BDSM or violent type, you would search how people treated women, how the porn industry is misogynistic towards women. And just type gay BDSM in google. You would think it was a joke. You know why am I sad? Let's get this straight. At least 40 percent of the total population might have watched porn at least once in their lifetime. Porn affects the minds of people. I am not talking about morality here. Hey, it is not wrong to enjoy at least once. But there are certain types of porn like violent porn which are disturbing. And now, after watching the news from various channels, I feel that violent porn is mainly responsible for the increase in the number of rape cases against women in my country. Don't you feel it is something to be sad about? People watching porn while some people have to suffer due to their minds, which went beyond their control. I wish violent porn was banned completely. I too like BDSM a bit, which is unharmful, as shown in gay porn; but there are some people who actually harm other innocent people. So, I think just for individual pleasure we can't forget the well being of society as a whole.
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To be honest, friend.. I kinda like some violent porn, but.. I, myself, am technically, considered gay, and.. I would NEVER hurt somebody like that.. I understand that space is sacred and should only been shared with somebody willingly.. I wouldnt never do anything like what i watch to.. My fiance, nor anybody else.. Personally, i think, some people are just power hungry and sick, friend.. It's.. Not much to do with what they watch, it's how they *handle* what they watch.. But.. I understand feeling upset over it.. I find, i often am, myself.. Sorry if this didn't help.. Hope you find what you're looking for.. Good luck.
ReplyWould never* sorry. Typo..
ReplyWhen I realized I was gay and tried telling everyone about it, my best friend was the only person who supported me and stood with me, when everyone was against me. She even convinced my parents who were later 'okay' with my sexuality (my parents initially thought she was my gf and since they liked her, they didn't say anything, later they knew we were best friends). She was the only person whom I couldn't protect when she needed me the most. And i am unable to bear this guilt.
ReplyThank you for understanding. There is no harm in watching violent porn but some people don't have control on their mind. Being a guy, I love watching a bit of violent porn but people need to know how to handle themselves and know that porn is mere fantasy. My best friend was raped by a guy who frequently watched violent porn(he used to brag in front of us) and his remarks about girls made me feel maybe violent porn is responsible for the increase in crimes.
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