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I don't know how do I describe my problems. Hmm.. I have never lived without my parents before. So I never had to solve my problems myself. My parents mostly solved my problems for me. Because of this, I feel myself too much irresponsible. When it comes to do things on my own, I find them too much difficult to do. It is also because I have always been shy to talk with people. I really feel I should do my things myself without my parents' help but I am puzzled. When I think about it hurts me badly. Most of my peers can do things on their own.
I don't know what should I do now. I am just panicked. Everyday while going on bed such thoughts hurt me.
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ReplyThis was bad parenting on their part. Kids who have been protected from problems like you end up with poor coping skills and see problems where other kids who have had to solve problems from a young age can't see a problem at all. If you need help ask someone to help you until you learn. You must overcome your shyness to get the help you need. To build confidence write a few speeches, then learn one and having your family as your audience say it to them. Do this with each of your speeches until you feel confident enough to ask people for help with things.
ReplyThank you so much. I must consider your advice.
ReplyFun fact: first week I moved into my own place alone I only ate snickers drank coffee in fancy glasses and slept on the living room floor. Some of it was fear of being alone and some of it was that i am l a z y. I mean emotionally I can deal but the practical stuff man sometimes I just have nooo idea whatsoever. If you wanna try and learn how to do more by yourself thats great but you can still ask for help if its something you're absolutely clueless about! No need to be ashamed. Honestly it just takes a lot of time and pratice and patience with yourself!
ReplyThanks for your advice.
ReplyAlso, funfact n2, last week I was eating pizza at a bar and I had just finished. I got up to go inside and order something else but the waiter saw me getting up and he thought I was gonna leave so he said bye have a good night and i was like uhm yeah sure thanks you too. So i went back to my bf and told him we had to leave because the waited had said goodbye he tried to make me go back inside but i literally ran home like crazy and he was sooo mad at me lol
Hope that makes you feel a little better :) sometimes it just be like that
Reply:)Thanks
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