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We like each other for almost 10 months, we dated but had to break up due to some reasons, but we didn't want to break up, but we had to, In July, he started acting weird and we fought and argued a lot, before that we had a lot I mean A LOT of memories, and in August, he started been very aggressive through text and started ghosting me, later he texted me and I just deleted his contact, un- followed him from social media and made sure I will try to forget him, not a day passes by that one of our memories will come to my mind, I feel like crying, we haven't spoken for almost 4 months now, and honestly I feel relieved, cos I didn't have to make anyone a priority again, I don't think I can ever date gain, neither do I think a boy will ever like me. If u read this, kindly drop some advice cos I don't want to be treated like a toy.
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don't give up on love just take a small breather. if you are feeling better since leaving this boy then you did the right thing. Make sure you have a "guideline" about how you should be treated in a relationship so if your partner breaks the guidelines you can know that it is probably not a healthy relationship. Also make sure that if they are doing something that makes you feel bad, you bring it up to them so you can work together to change. It's easier said than done but it is important to have rules and to communicate.
ReplyThanks for sharing - it takes courage to share your feelings. In my experience, there will always be boys in search of girls who are "available"; being approached for romance by boys will be the last thing a girl has to worry about. But, time is gold - use it wisely. In the meantime learn a profession or a skill that will be useful (as in a good paying job) in case you decide someday you want to be alone for a while before getting into a committed relationship.
I went through a while flying solo, similar to your situation. Funny, but you don't realize how awesome it is to be free as a bird... to fly and soar or to just take life slow one day at a time, with every day a new adventure.. until you're in a committed relationship. A committed relationship is great.. and if that's what we're looking for we'll find it sooner or later, usually when we least expect it...so have fun with your freedom while you have it, make the best of "your" time.
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