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Please help me unless you LITERALLY want me dead and in a grave.
My dad doesn't let me on social media or talk to people on the internet (even though I'm 18) but I secretly talk with people on the internet anyways because I'm not allowed to have a social life or any friends and I'm always home even private-study/homeschool and I need to grow and develop as a person
Thats why I installed this social media app on my phone just to send a message in a group chat and when I was about to delete it...My phone died (even though it had 90% charge)
Now i put it to charge anyways but it wont go pass the booting phase...I see the logo but then the whole screen is black and I cant see anything and then when I press the power button again, it turns off
I cant hide this from my dad for long!!! He always checks my phone and he'd say "Oh this isn't working" and when he gets it to work, he'll find out and open the app and then see all the religious groups and group chats and find out that I changed my religion and then kill me
he believes in killing people who leave our religion
He's very angry like and toxic and beats a lot and yells and you dont know him, thats why he doesnt own a gun as well because we all know he would kill us the day he owns one and we hide knives from him too , he beats he believes in killing and then im dead
He'll send me back to my home country to make me marry OR he will KILL me lock me in my room if he finds out
pLEASE
How do i UNINSTALL that app from my phone using my laptop???!!!
I need help
if he finds out that
#1: I use social media, he'd kill me and immediately assume I date and talk to boys and send pics
#2: Find out I left his religion, he would kill me because he believes in this rule strictly
once i spoke against this rule and he slapped me pulled my hair locked me in my room for 3 days with no food until i repented and said i believe in it and didnt talk to me for months
Please this is serious Ive been trying for hours I used youtube and google to help me I did everything but my phone wont open
And I dont want my dad to find out
MY fingers are literally trembling i feel anxious i want to cry
how do i fix it
what do i do
He should come from work any time soon and I need to uninstall that app
This is what I get for being disobedient
I hope my phone never starts working but he always gets phones to work he is good at these things but he will check my phone again
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Throw away your phone.
ReplyBreak it beyond usage and throw it away.
ReplyWhat if he gets suspicious? But that's right, maybe I need to lose a couple other things and put my phone in my purse and tell my dad that I lost my purse and my phone was in it. I just need to do something so that my phone doesn't get tracked. He also installed a phone tracker on my phone it shows him the route I take and everything. I will work on an idea similar to yours
ReplyThank you, once I lost my phone and my dad found it using the phone tracker.
ReplyCall the police.
ReplyBreak it with something heavy, and say that you dropped a big box or a heavy book fell on it. But before that, call the police and tell them this.
Reply* This.
Reply1. Destroy your phone
2. Log out from your account (google
acc if you have) from your laptop if you can.
3. Destroy the screen of your phone.
4. Throw it away
ReplyLogging out might help you to stop tracking your phone by other phones.
ReplyDepends on the way that app phone tracker app works. In most cases it words because of Google maps and the accounts related to it. Location could easily be found from it's help. If you can access your account from laptop try opening google playstore from it and you can still see which apps you have in your phone. So be careful
ReplyI don't want to call the police because even though my dad is strict and has anger management issues, he loves us. And if something happens to him, we won't be able to pay the rent or insurances because me and my mom aren't allowed to have a job. I don't want him arrested
ReplyIf he will KILL you, call then police. Period.
ReplyHe will if he finds out about my messages. You guys gave me an idea, Google says I can erase all my data from my phone through my laptop. I can definitely do that!
ReplyCall the police. Period.
ReplyIf that's possible then go for it!
ReplyIf he will KILL you, call the police. Period.
ReplyIf you love your family you will call the police and report the abuse. You and your family are in danger and your father obviously needs mental help.
ReplyI just heard my dad open the living room door, he's home and went to the bathroom. My phone just turned on and I deleted that app. Thank GOD. This was the scariest moment of my life
Why wasn't it turning on before?!
Next time I'll use my laptop these things never my phone
Reply#1 Remove the search history from your Gmail.
#2 If your search history appears on your google search bar, remove all items.
ReplyThank you, yes i do that for many things on my laptop. I have 2 chrome accounts (not google, but chrome itself) where it saves different bookmarks
ReplyRemove all bookmarks.
Reply* You will need to do this individually for both of your Gmail accounts. (You will remove these separately from both accounts.)
#1 Remove the search history from your Gmail.
#2 If your search history appears on your google search bar, remove all items.
ReplyOk, yes I will be extra cautious. I learned from this experience
ReplyMay God be with you.
Reply#3 If you continue doing this, today or tomorrow, your Dad WILL find out. Stopping this completely is safest for you.
Reply#4 Remove search and download history from all browsers.
ReplyI will stop using social media all together, but I have an online best friend and I cant cut contact with him. I text him secretly using an app hider which is a multi-functional calculator which hides all photos and apps. The one I openly installed doesnt work in the app hider. Do you think he will find out about that as well? It looks like a regular calculator in playstore and settings
ReplyYes. Today or tomorrow he will find out.
ReplyIn any case, despite all of this, if he still finds out, tell your father:
"I am sorry. You are right. I did absolutely wrong by doing [what you did]. How could I do such a horrible thing? What was I thinking? I deserve to be punished. But, I ask for forgiveness. I will never repeat it in life for as long as I am alive. I am terribly. sorry"
Regardless of anything, this pitch is your best shot at being forgiven.
(Using this technique I have received pardons from police stations in multiple countries.)
ReplyIn any case, despite all of this, if he still finds out, tell your father:
"I am sorry. You are right. I did absolutely wrong by doing [what you did]. How could I do such a horrible thing? What was I thinking? Nothing justifies what I have done. I deserve to be punished. But, I ask for forgiveness. I will never repeat it in life for as long as I am alive. I am terribly sorry."
Regardless of anything, this pitch is your best shot at being forgiven.
(Using this technique I have received pardons from police stations in multiple countries.)
ReplyCall the police. Sending many prayers. 🙏
ReplyTalk to someone please right this instant. Your father is abusive and I don't know if you understand that and still want to stay with him, but please ask someone for help right now. Honestly call the police if you don't have anyone else, but just ask for help. If you don't want to do that, then throw away your phone and pretend you lost it somehwere. You might have to live without your phone for a while or something, but that's probably better than any of the other consequences of this situation.
ReplyGet help. Ask for help. Call the police. I'm sorry, it seems you don't want to leave your dad or have him arrested, but get help for him. He needs anger management classes. I would advice you to get help, and he might have to go to court for that, but I don't think you want that, which I understand. But from what you've said, your Dad is crazy. If he is your only source of financial support, depending on where you live, the government will help, especially in a situation like yours I hope it's like that in your country. I just wanna ask you even though it might be rude: are you happy living with your Dad? Do you want to? Is it good for you?
And when you said he believes in killing, I lost it. i'm sorry but i am genuinely worried. I pray you'll be alright.
ReplyCall the police. If that isn’t an option, break your phone beyond repair and pretend you dropped it.
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