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Come the 1st of next month, I'm putting myself out in the world of dating again. I hold myself to these unrealistic standards that I have to have my life squared away and the honest truth is, I don't.
But that doesn't mean I'm going to lie about who I am. No, I'm gonna be honest about who I am and let them decide whether I'm something they could handle or not. With the very first criteria being "do not try to fix me".
So here's how I think my profiles will go;
Hi! I'm Dan. I'm 37, I collect disability, I suffer from severe depression, complex post traumatic stress disorder, and borderline personality disorder.
I am a very warm and affectionate person, I'm a people pleaser. I'm very laid back and I don't generally stress over many things.
I won't lie to you, I've never cheated in my life, and in all honesty I'm just trying to find someone to spend the rest of my life with.
I'm more of a 3rd wheel, I don't insert myself into situations a whole lot. So I'm usually not in the way. I'll do my best to inspire you and help you achieve goals and ambitions. My only goals being 1. To make you feel special. 2. To know I love you, whoever you are, and I always have your back. And 3. To build some good memories together.
That's all I ask for.
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I really don't feel like trying to start things off without at least telling my potential partner about issues that will almost certainly arise.
I put myself out there a couple different times like this and it ended with them hanging my mental illness over my head, so I've been hurt for my honesty before.
But I can't just let someone into my life and allow them to just go stumbling around, finding out in the worst ways possible. I don't want to have to explain myself in the midst of an argument or a misunderstanding.
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I think you're onto a great start with your profile, and I'm sure you'll find exactly who you're looking for!
ReplyGood luck! It sounds good. Hope you find someone who is a bitch to you.
ReplyISNT I MEANT ISNT OMIGOD IM SORRY I MEANT TO SAY ISNT
ReplyI hope you find someone who ISNT a b**** to you.
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