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My father has been abusive since I was very young. He has beaten me, my brother and my mother many times. He bullies us emotionally on a daily basis. I just finished high school and don't have financial stability otherwise I would've moved out already. I can't ask my friends or relatives for financial support. My mother is the breadwinner of our family so if she left with us, we'd live well. But she doesn't. She has promised me many times that she'd get me out of this situation and I found apartments for rent but she always backed off. She intends to stay with my father. I can't call the police because my mother will freak out and never talk to me again. She's so afraid of embarrassment. I wish I could overlook this fact and just call the police but for now it's not an option really. Please, is there any other way I could get out of this situation as soon as possible? I've been dreaming my whole life of never living with my father ever again. I'll try my best to find a job but due to COVID-19 it's a bit tricky. Plus it's my first year of college and I'm very busy. I do really want to study. I've been working hard and studying my whole life and I'd like to see it pay off. Please, drop some ideas of what I could do. How I could make my mother take the action and finally get us out.
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Till you can live away from him, meditate. Focus on your breath coming in and going out.
ReplyI'll do that. Thank you! It might help with the stress.
ReplyHowever, move away from him at the earliest. That is the permanent solution.
ReplyYou're absolutely right. I know that. I'm working two part-part time jobs that are possible to have while being in university but it just isn't enough to support myself. Thankfully I have a full scholarship at university so if I find a good job, I'll probably be able to move out.
ReplyThe only thing I can think of is seeking help, but I understand you're not able to do that right now. I just wish you the best and I hope you stay safe :) good luck <33
ReplyThank you! <3
ReplyYoure not alone. My dads the same. Physically verbally and emotionally abusive. He also has hit mom in the past but mainly just me. I dont have the financial stability either or id have been on the other side of the world long ago or 1000 miles away just anywhere else almost would be better than with him.
Do you have any close relatives or friends etc you could room with maybe until you're financially stable and able to save money? I hope it gets better for you.
ReplyAbusive relationships are really hard to get out of. Maybe fear is holding her back? Maybe she doesn't want to leave since she's the breadwinner. There could be many reasons. You can do a more in depth internet search on how to get somebody out of this situation; I really do not know what to say. I'm so sorry.
ReplyYour mother is too afraid to leave. You do your best to get out of there.
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