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how long i think it would take my friends to get over my death
3 years ago · 13 · Suicidal Thoughts, +6
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y: 2-3 days
d: 2 weeks
k:1-2 months
j: 4 days
r: a week
a: a week
s: 3 months
m: a week
l: 5 days
im planning to kill myself next year and so this was interesting to think about. i have very bad overthinking issues so i was trying to be very generous with these but i think it would really take them a couple of hours until they were over me. im very unhappy right now and its a slow process in convincing myself everybody wishes i were dead so its easier to kill myself next year
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ReplyDon't talk like that. You know you would be missed. Not everyone is a callous human being. Consider talking to somebody. It's what they're there for. I know how it feels being unwanted unloved uncared for etc. It's not good. You're here you're still breathing so you have a purpose if nothing else to help others maybe. Stay strong ok
ReplyYou might be right, but I wanted to point out that there would be at least 1 person who never gets over your death. You might not even be friends with this person, maybe it's someone you pass in the halls in school.
My sophomore year in high school a boy killed himself. Sadly, like you said, many people got over his death within weeks and all was back to normal. This was 10 years ago and I still haven't gotten over his death. We weren't even friends, I just knew him from afar and wish I had said something when I had the chance.
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ReplyYou're wrong on all of them.
They may stop thinking about it, but they will never get over it. Those are two different things. When someone dies it leaves a lasting scar on many people's hearts...
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ReplyNO, we will NEVER get over it!!! We love you and we want you in our lives! You've done nothing wrong, baby... Please call someone, tell them, LET US HELP YOU!
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