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I'm not sure if any one here is a Christian, a female and a porn addict. i really hate to put all of these in one sentence. I don't know how long its going to take me to break it. It may sound pathetic but that is a truth. i guess i have to realise that this is what i am now. i don't understand. where is this urge and this desire coming from? what is the root cause of this? why am i unable to free my self from this? I'm in the worship team too. I know i should be ashamed. I should be... i really should be.. what do i do now? i don't know... these are not just recent desires... ever since i was a little kid. 3ex and love is something forbidden and was not to talk among anyone. I guess i just grew curious? i don't know. what is it? why can't i get it off me? i'm begging him to help me? i feel like there is absolutely nothing to live for other than God and now that i'm failing him every single day there is no one i can live for. i don't know what to do? i really want all of this to end. If anyone finds out, Oh my! it is the end of it all.. i would die... the humiliation, disappointment... this is too much... really too much to handle... i can't...
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You shouldn't be ashamed. Personally I see nothing evil in porn, it's a biological function and porn makes it entertaining. shrugs. My question to you is, have you ever gotten any indication from God, or some internal moral voice, telling you that porn is bad? Or is it just that people (parents, pastors, etc) say it's bad? I say go with your own internal voice, whatever it says. If you're curious about "forbidden" ideas, then God made you that way for a reason :)
ReplyYou know the Lord loves you. We all fail Him daily in one way or another.Porn can be a difficult thing to stop but you can overcome it. You should think of it as videos that already happened that are none of your business. It's poison for the mind. It's empty sex. There are a lot of Christians which struggle with porn you're not alone. Forgive yourself ask for forgiveness try to focus on other things instead of that stuff. You're human. We aren't perfect. So go easy on yourself. The Lord is your judge. Not man.
ReplySounds too good. Don’t you think God would just smite porn producers? He’s probably laughing at how ridiculous it all is. And this post😂 Christian girls fantasize saving the world.
ReplyOnly God can condemn us; we as people can judge each other, in a discerning manner, but only God can condemn us. And we all fall short of the glory of God.
Judging = To objectively evaluate someone based on conduct and morality.
Condemning = Forming a negative, usually self-righteous, opinion about someone because they do not measure up to moral standards.
The question: "Is porn morally corrupt?". Well, based on the fact that porn feeds lust (1 of the 7 deadly sins) and the people who make porn typically transmit STDs, inspire debauchery and focus on the treatment of women as purely sex objects - I would be inclined to conclude it is morally corrupt.
You indicate you are female - this is irrelevant. Anyone, male or female, can fall to the addiction of porn.
You indicate you are Christian - this is irrelevant. Anyone, from any of the hundreds of man-made religions around the globe can fall to the addiction of porn.
I would venture to speculate that this is not a case of lust, but of the "forbidden fruit", mostly because you're female. We all fall to some form of a "forbidden fruit" at some point in our lives; the beauty of Christ Jesus' ministry and life on earth was his core message of love, sacrifice and forgiveness. But, we must truly want to turn from our fallen path, otherwise we don't really feel penitent if we continue to repeat that for what we've asked forgiveness.
Courtesy notice: the following includes a reference to a book that contains writings over 2000 years old which are mostly parables about human nature, both vile human nature as well as moral human nature, parables that are meant to teach us to learn and grow. No religion required, and better yet: no public displays of devotion required. Some bullies will label this "trolling", so "change the channel" now if of no interest to you.
Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
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