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I love my dad a lot n respect him very much.. i always count him a bit extra than i count mom.. like the opinions n stuffs even the girly things which are supposed to be shared with mom, I've shared with my dad and he has supported me an the Times.
We were rich when i was young and lived great lifestyle but later on my dad lost his job and then we decided that now its high time u start your own business.. but since he comes from a really different field.. it takes him time to find a contractor and work with him or one time order.
He is working and getting us everything needed but since lockdown his work is on pause but i luckily got a job n my job has saved the house, we are all about to eat.
But there is this thing which is very bad of my parents is they fight a lot literally hit each other.. they used to hit me as well but have stopped since 4 to 5 years.... But dad still hits mom and mom then hits him back and it goes on leaving scars and swollen body parts. I really hate that thing... I have been trying my best to always stop them ... I have a younger brother but he hardly helps it's always me who have to stop them but today when they were fighting in front of me n my brother i was not able to bare it though i sat quiet for few minutes hoping them to calm down n at least stop hitting. Which did happen... So i n my bro went in bedroom but suddenly i heard my mom's loud voice of shouting in pain n since ik my dad's habit i knew he would have hit mom n even he knows mom can't bare even a bit but still he cannot control n as the habit goes he does hit her so i assumed he has hit her and she was crying really loud so this time i could not control n i hit my dad with the broom's handle on his leg .... N my dad was in great pain n i instantly realised tht , he told me that mom tried to bend his hand opposite side so he hit her... Idk whom to support here hence i punched my mom's back as well to equalize to make things fair but i feel i sucked... Now i am literally shivering because I really feel my dad is in pain.... I can't see my dad like this... Something good happened that my brother this time took the initiative to ask mom dad not to talk with each other directly but inform us whatever they want to talk, at least till tomorrow morning so things can calm.
But now i am feeling really bad
I don't understand what to do.
How wrong have i done... There is a lot going with me.. like i am facing much more with this.. i feel may b all piled up.. i just don't know what but want things to sort out and my dad to b all well.... Can't see him like this even for a second.. i don't even feel like eating.
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Hey, I am so sorry you have to go through this but you don't seem to be aware that what your parents are doing to each other is called domestic abuse. It is absolutely never okay for a parent to lay their hand on another parent or family member with the intention of hurting them. I really think you should call the police next time it happens.
I understand how scary and confusing it can be. If you feel comfortable doing this and think it would help, talking to each of your parents separately about why they hit each other may help. Like you could ask them if there's another way they can release their anger (like going on a walk outside or taking some alone time). You could also write a note to each of them, letting them know that it is not okay to hurt people. However, you are not required to fix their relationship. They should be taking care of you, not the other way around.
I really hope your parents start to respect each other. Please try not to get involved when they are hitting each other; try to leave the room with your younger brother.
ReplyBut uk when they hit i cannot see that i can't bare it.. and even if m not in same room , their noises are perfectly audible.. if i choose to listen songs during tht time, it doesn't work, because they come fighting Till our room as well so I don't see a way to escape.. in days i can go out.. but rest idk... I'll do talk with them individually.. thanks for the support.. really 😊
ReplyThat is a really messed up situation from the beginning. I don't even know what to say except you & your brother should never be subjected to any of that. But one positive outcome is that maybe your parents will think twice before fighting in front of you again because they know you'll get involved. You shouldn't have to, but I think it's good that you showed them you're not going to sit and do nothing.
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