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I fell in love with my sister in law's brother, we had a really really good bond. I shared a good bond with the sister in law too. The sister in law divorced my brother after a year because she didn't feel like she was in love with my brother anymore. We all accepted that but the family ties were totally broken after that. I lost my closest friend and what I felt like was my soulmate, I didn't confess but he called me up and confessed that he loved me so I also told him that I felt the same way, but there is no way this can work now he said we could keep it a secret but I couldn't lie all the time. I somewhat accepted the fact that this can't happen now, and told him to just accept that. He said he respected my decision but would call me up every 2-3 months later. I get effected everytime he does that and go through really bad heartbreak, he proposed marriage. And said his family doesn't mind. But I know mine does. My brother would be hurt too and I love him too much to do that. We are pretty young too, And If I fight for this my parents won't be happy, and I can't be happy if they aren't, I told him this, but he said he can try again sometime later. His sister (my ex sister in law) called me and said that he loved me and I should think about this, I told her i love him but this is just too messed up. She just started making me feel bad about it all like it was my fault I wasn't accepting his love or something, saying I won't have a second chance at love etc. I was pretty messed up already. I can't even talk to my parents about this. My whole world feels empty. I am a very happy person not one person around me can tell that I m depressed or going through something like this. I just don't know what to do, I know what I had with him was special I don't know if I can have that again with someone ever again. Her saying all that just made me so scared it all felt like a threat. I broke down, I called him and told him to never call me ever again, and that I don't want to talk to him after this. I am so deeply hurt. I dont have words to express myself. I just want to have some perspective it sounds so messed up in my head.
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