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I trusted one blindly, when I was very depressed and vulnerable, and sent them my photos. I was craving validation. I feel terrible. I feel used. Fetishized over my ethnicity. I don't know where my photos ended up.
I'm just praying that I was just being ignored for being ugly or something, and not catfished, but why would my ethnicity be fetishized?
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It happened with me too.
ReplyIt happens quite often than people think. I experienced it as well. I just want to say that there are a lot of people out there who catfish and it's not your fault that they do that. You trusted them and thEY broke your trust. Not you. So it's not your fault. It's only normal anyone would feel used over such a situation. But please don't think you made the wrong choice. When someone is vulnerable, they may express their feelings, to anyone who shares a concern for them. But we won't know at that time, whether the person we open up to is good or not. And it's not our fault. Because sometimes, we let go. And we may let go to the wrong people. That doesn't mean we did something wrong. We are only human aren't we?
To answer the question about why your ethnicity would be fetishized, I would say there's no complicated reason. It's pretty simple. And it's very common. Everyone has desires, but some of them get selective. And the person who apparently catfished you was simply one of those people whose sexual or emotional desires were ethnic in nature.
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