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How Can I Move On?
8 years ago · 2
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When you have done everything for a man to make him happy, and he ends up leaving you. Is it wrong to feel replace? Not feeling like you were enough? He promise you everything from marriage, children, and to always be there for you. You stayed with him through the harsh words through emotional abuse and you forgave him with the few times he put his hands on you. Not only that, but you loss your virginity to him, something you vowed to the Lord to wait until marriage for. But being in love, you gave it up to that one man who you thought you will spend the rest of your life with. Now, he is now with another woman. Just 30 seconds within him breaking up with you, he text the next person and say "Let's get together" screenshot it (while he's on the phone with you) and send it to you. How can you ever move on when he is the only thing you love? How come it was right for him to be friends and talk with people of the opposite gender, but he trips when someone in your college class asks something regarding work? He broke up with you regarding something that happened when you were 15, and you are now 22. He did not even know you then, but yet he called you every negative name to degrade you. Yet, you're still in love with him? He holds your childhood past over you, and always made you feel inferior to both him and his other female friends, but yet you feel like you lost your world? He does not believe anything you say, and thinks you sleep around for money when he is the only person you ever had intercourse with and you would not dare do any such thing from money from a stranger. Things are hard for you while in college, but it was not that hard. I guess what is hurting you is the 20 other times he broke up with you, but you two always got back together. However, this time when he broke up with you and how he did it caused you to say okay and wish him well with the new woman. Unfortunately, as the 27th day of this month approach you are still heartbroken and cannot seem to move on. It will make three months since you two have broken up, and you have not spoken to him in any way, but yet you still spend your days crying over him wishing he will comeback to you. How can you ever move on?
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We make mistakes,its not easy,but if you succeed to let it go you will get what you deserve eventually.Think for yourself is what you got from him love?And then see and talk with him,or walk,so to say.Cheers
ReplyHe treated you like shit! He does not love you.
You did not nor do you now deserve to be treated that way!
Some guys will treat girls that way to lower their self esteem so that you feel like he is doing you a favor by being with you.
He wants you to be there when he is done playing around with someone else.
But as soon as someone else is in his sights he will leave you again.
You need to get your self esteem so no one else can treat you this way.
Love lifts up and protects......not hurt and put down.
I wish you luck!
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