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Yes, I know you"re curious as you"re adding me on social media and probably looking through my pictures, but let me tell you something...I know we don"t know each other and I know he probably has brought up that I"m that "crazy" girlfriend but as he told me his ex-girlfriend was crazy I assumed he said the same about me...
Don"t be surprised how quickly you fall in love with him, his words and actions can sweep you off your feet like he did to me.
He will shower you with gifts, spoil you and make you feel like a queen.
He will take you out and show you off and tell you endless compliments.
Yes, at the beginning was perfect and he did everything he could to make me fall in love with him, he showered me in compliments, gifts and anything I asked for, then boom somewhere I fell in love with him and all of a sudden he knew when he succeeded in pulling me in.
At first I always hung out with my friends and family and if I wanted to go out he would always say "why don"t we...." And I just thought he was being sweet and wanted to spend time with me. So I slowly stopped hanging with my friends and family because I knew it made him happy spending time with me.
When I was getting ready he would watch me and at the time I thought that was cute but as I put my makeup on he would make comments like "isn"t that too much? I love when you don"t wear makeup". I thought he was implying that I was beautiful without makeup on and slowing started to stop wearing makeup. As I got dressed in the morning he would make comments like "let me pick an outfit for you just to see what it would look like" and I let him do that because I wasn"t thinking much of it. So eventually I started wearing only things he liked me wearing.
When I was out or just at work he would text me cute messages but imply "where are you at, or who are you with"? I never thought anything of it because I just thought he was curious or worried about me.
I could go on and on about the signs I never picked up until it was almost too late....
He slowly became a monster that I didn"t know he could be, he continued to boss me around, and push me down. He put his hands on me the way NO man should. At the beginning he emotional messed me up so much I had no strength to protect myself because he drilled in my head "I was nothing, no man would want me, I"m stupid and I don"t deserve happiness" and if I left him he would threat that I would be alone for the rest of my life. Truly, I believed that and that right there was the worst mistake I could make.
In no way am I putting all the blame on him because I did stay with him...
I know you probably believe none of this, but I"m truly looking out for you.
Btw, a while after he and I broke up I did find someone better and he the happiness I never thought I could have.
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