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This is the CRAZY ass story of my sister's death and how my family lost touch with reality!
Let's get things straight first haha.
My sister who passed away, her name is Edean. My oldest sister, we will call her Sister A. So Edean and sister A are fraternal twins. I also have another sister who is my middle sister, we will call her sister B. Edean is a lesbian but has two girls and a women who loves her plus another women who loves her very much. Sister A has three kids with her baby daddy (will call him Drunkie, even though they are all alcoholics now, including me haha) and had a girl with a crack head dude but she is grown now and Sister B has one daughter with a douche-bag of a man.
So..It starts off with a phone call from my oldest sister, will call her sister A. She asked me "are you sitting down?" I knew something was wrong right away, I lived in a city about 20 minutes away from Calgary where my family was. I asked what is going on and finally she lets out a cry and tells me that Edean is dead.....
I told her to fuck off and stop fucking around. She said No, it's not a joke. So I hung up the phone and got my cousin to drive me into the city. I don't even remember that day to be honest, it seems to be a blur of me trying to wrap my head around my sister, my best friend and mother role model to me in my life, is just gone. Overdose- on her medication, a hint of cocaine (hardly) but the alcohol intake was what did it. Her heart couldn't handle it. She died around 3am on February 1st 2014. The day after my mother birthday..
I'll never understand why or if it was on purpose. I'll never get to hear her voice again and her kids.. oh my her kids I felt horrible. Her youngest daughter was about seven and is losing memories of her.. so the funeral was held a day laterbor so. Open casket, I'll never forget how different she looked. Made up to be her, I felt like how can they try to make her look good when they don't even know her or didn't know her I should say.. the facts of the matter where bleek and misurable but the sun was still shining bright and it was a nice day which I couldn't understand. My mother was destroy as we're my sisters and I. Sister A, Sister B and I all went out for drinks and had a blast back at Edeans house for the after party funeral, we got annialated and we sang and yelled to the heavens. It was the best it could have been for the situation we were in.
So March comes around and I move back to Calgary the same day as Edean's oldest daughter (niece a) 16th birthday, my mother decided to have the memorial held that very same day. I was so busy that day I could barely stand by the time people started showing up for her memorial. It was so beautiful, I was having drinks with my mummy-sun and all of a sudden I saw the most featuring of sights. My sister A shows up with none other than Edean's girlfriend (whom my youngest niece, (neice B) Edean's youngest called Daddy!!) Together as a couple! I could not believe my eyes as they walked up to my sister's memorial holding hands, like are you serious! Ok. So! I immediately stop drinking, I feel disrespected and betrayed for Edean by her "twin sister"! Ruthlessness..
So as the night goes on, everyone's getting my neice A hammered. To the point we're she's getting sick and laying on the couch trying to feel better, slept most of the night off as I keep giving her water and food. As my sister A starts accusing me of drinking her 40 pounder of vodka, as if yuck. Plus I stopped drinking as soon as I saw them walk up. Someone had to respect Edean. I just said fuck it this is rediculous and I gathered my stuff, neice A and left that shit show. That was 2014 and That's not even the worst part... Over time sister A dumps (the girl my neice B calls Daddy) her and gets back with her baby daddy for a time. He's abusive so they are off and on. Now hop too 2020..
Jerry Springer Episode my Life is, this is but a glimpse;
My sister A finds out that my sister B is sleeping with with sister A's baby daddy or all three of her kids she has. Sister A and him have been off and on for 10 years... Gross as fuck. Ya sister B and sister A s baby daddy were now saying the are happily in love and everyone should be happy for them.. um Naw. That's disgusting and wrong. So they get a place and sister A treats sister B's belongings like trash and leaves sister B's stuff right by the garbage, so some stuff got taken. Anyways sister A and sister B start hanging out again so I was no longer needed (they have eachothers back and bestfriends, Edean and I had each others back and we were bestfriends. So) I lost my Best-Friend it just seems so unreal when the other two are fighting with eachother, then they message, call and even come over to see me because they don't have one another. So sister B and sister A's baby daddy break up while sister A is in BC with her new lover. (cops are called because of drinking) Sister A's new lover, happens to be sister B's high school love/sweetheart like she called him sweetness for as long as I can remember now he's with sister A?!? Sister B, she loved him with her whole soul no matter who she was with it always came back to him but now sister A is with him!!!! What the fuck, like she even apperantly brought him for xmas knowing sister B was going to be there....
I'm just thinking what did I miss to tell you and what's next? I just feel sorry for Edean, my sister would have been livid to see all this shit happening with them it's crazy and intense .. I'm sure I've missed something but I'll keep writing and maybe one day you'll understand my Jerry Springer family because it is pretty fascinating to sit here with my baby daddy of 13 years and we just say woooow, Jerry jeerrry jerry, because honestly these people are amusing but it's hard to watch sometimes. They hurt eachother despite or in a childish way that I can't understand.
Thanks for reading!
Sincerely,
Kindred-Spirit
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