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My guy friends always wind up liking me. I don't flirt. I actually try to avoid leading anyone on. I am super careful, because guys seem to fall for me too easily. I am always watching, careful to make sure nothing I say will give a guy hope that I like him. But, I have done this, and guys will still wonder if I like them when I have done almost nothing! It's actually getting frustrating because I am trying to avoid being in a relationship because I am dealing with my bad health, college, and I need to get a job. Sometimes, it's really hard to be a girl and have real guy friends. Like, it might be possible for some people idk, but it seems impossible for me even though I am not flirty. I am just tired of this. Another guy friend just confessed to me tonight. I just always feel bad because they are nice friends, but then I have to hurt them by rejecting them. Then I feel all their hurt emotions. It just hurts us both. It's just sad and Idk what to do because this guy I've known for 19 years. All my life.
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ReplyHappens to me all the time. I have to stop talking to friends because even after years of saying 'never will happen' they still think it might because I talk to them more than others. So I stopped. One guy I told for decades that he wasn't an option, yet every time I date someone he tells me he's upset and still waiting. I don't talk to him at all anymore. I sucks. Sorry I don't have any words on how to get it to stop. I'm 55 and i still get male friends saying they want to date me.
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