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Heyyy! So Iām giving this guy a chance right, heās very very sweet right and Iām giving him a chance I donāt feel butterflies yet, but Iām trying ! And I work almost all day so I talk to him a little bit In the morning and a little bit in the night. But thereās times where Iām tired and he wants to talk on the phone like every night ! And Iām just like oh well maybe cause weāre barely talking weāre at that lovey dovey stag. I would like to talk every now and then but not everyday š©and he wants to ft all the time too. For our first ft he showed me his room blah blah blah and then he asked to see mines. Like what? What if I didnāt want to show him my room, I showed it but yea idk exactly how I feel about him yet. Heās so sweet and compared to other guys itās had to find the nice ones but Iām not feeling the butterflies yet
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Well, I don't think that butterflies are necessary since they'll go away eventually anyways, I think that in any lasting relationship it's actually quite important to learn how to make something work even when there are no butterflies. So I wouldn't worry too much about that part.
BUT if your wants/needs aren't in sync I would definitely recommend you to talk about that with him and sort it out, because if you can't do it now, then it will probably be an even bigger problem later on.
ReplyHow long have you been speaking to this guy for? Butterflies can be an overrated feeling, but personally to you, do you have any kind of connection towards him. If not, sometimes its best not to beat around the bush, if he is a good person for you when times are better, that might be more suitable for you when you will feel the way you are expecting.
These feelings cant be forced so always trust your gut. If your not feeling it, chances are its just not there. I know it can seem that nice guys are hard to come by, but you cant just keep someone in your life because you feel like it's a 1 in 10. There will be plenty more in your lifetime. (Sorry this sounds too harsh:( )
Good luck
ReplyGive him a chance. If ft makes you that uncomfortable tell him you'd rather just message or text. You're not obligated to show him your room. Just don't let him push you into stuff you don't want. Let him know how you feel.
ReplyIf you are not feeling it, you aren't feeling it. Not good to force it. As others have said butterflies are not everything but if there was any feeling there I doubt you'd have written this. Save both of you from more hurt later and leave it.
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