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Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years now, and I hadn't known she was kinky until she told me for the first time that she wanted me to spank her. Now, I love her and I'm a very open minded and excepting guy. But I don't want to hurt her bc my heart literally melts if she in pain. but she likes severe spankings. So how do I go about this?
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Pain is a function of the brain to alert us of danger, if she isn't experiencing it negatively then it's not a painful experience. Mild to moderate pain can be a huge stimulant in sex. Unless you are flogging her I'm pretty sure that spanks fall under mild to moderate. So you should try not looking at it as hurting her.
That said, you need to respect your own boundaries. If you are feeling very uncomfortable about it, speak to her. Communication is vital in any relationship, try to find a middle ground. If you suffer a strong negative response to it (like severe guilt, feel depressive afterwards, etc) or feel triggered from the action, don't do it.
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