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My sister is always asking me to do her college work for her and I always say yes, I don't know why. The work is so stressful for me, last time I did an assignment for her, I cried over it, because I couldn't figure out how to do something it needed. When I try to tell her I can't do it I end up feeling bad about it because I said I would, which makes me more stressed. The next assignment she wants me to do is an essay for her history class and it seems so hard, I don't what to do. Just looking at the assignment makes me stress about it and it's due in a couple of days, which is so much more stressful for me because I have my own work to do.
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I think you should talk to someone about all this stress. Maybe you should also talk to your sister about how you can't do her work anymore.
ReplyCan you avoid her? What grosses her out? How about when she talks about her homework suddenly come down with the worst case of the poops she can ever imagine and run to the bathroom. Or when she starts talking about her essay distract her by asking her about her favorite something or other then quietly go off to your corner of the house or tell your mom your sister is making you do her homework or tell your sister to ask her boyfriend to do her homework for her. Or just straight up say heck no B and go about your business. The possibilities are endless. Or you could do her essay really bad so she gets a bad grade and she won't ask you to do her homework again.
ReplyLook. You are NOT going to college for her. I don't care if she is your sister, I don't care how mad she gets, but she is obviously taking advantage of you. You HAVE to say NO! You're stressing over an essay that's not even due for a class that you're taking... do you see the point to where it's gotten? I am not blaming you but I just want you to look at this rationally and see that she's obviously exploiting your kind nature. Just say no. I know it's uncomfortable to turn something down but you don't deserve to stress over someone else's work like this, and your sister's doing an extremely morally wrong thing. Don't write her essay for her. She doesn't write it herself, that's no one's problem but hers.
ReplyYou are committing fraud and should stop immediately. She has signed documents at school saying she will do all the work herself and her asking you to do it is horrible. Tell her your ethics and morals overcame you and you need to stop. And don't feel bad, you are in the right. She doesn't deserve her college degree.
ReplyIt sounds like you have a desire to please others. But what about yourself? Would it make yourself happy to complete the essay? You cannot stress over everything that is not yours to stress abut. Try a simple “I can’t this time.” And then do not let her push you into it. Leave it at that something simple. Then o do something YOU enjoy. Go grab a coffee, read a book. Or even get back on here and say “Hey guys, I did it. I said no”. Then come tell us how you feel.
Replyyou are that intelligent kind hearted one in the family . . . :) thats why you cant say no . . .
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