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I've been fiends with my best friend since we were in elementary school, now we're 20 something, Anyways for the last couple of years she's changed gradually and that's ok. We used to talk about anything and we used to be honest to each other I didn't stop being honest and talking about anything but with time when I saw her changed I get this vibe like I can't talk anymore. Also when we try to hang out she's always busy but she's always out with her friends. It's like you can find time for other people but not for me. Anyways i just wanted to let it out PLEASE don't judge me.
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I do not think anyone will judge you, it's hard when you feel as though your best friend is more of a stranger now. I think the best thing you could do is try to talk to them and see why they have been so distant. Sorry if this sounds kinda basic but it might help.
ReplyMaybe she needs a bit of time away, and then things can go back to normal. Or maybe she doesn't realize how she's making you feel. The only way to find out is to directly talk to her about this issue in a nice way. If she doesn't tell you what's going on, that is a red flag but I don't think that will happen.
ReplyNobody here is judging you! This is a safe space. I heard someone say that in order to make a relationship or friendship work, you have to be comfortable with the fact that your partner or friend is constantly changing- you have to meet the new version of them and accept them every time. But this has to be mutual. If I were you, I would talk to my friend candidly about wanting to be in their life. I will say, though, that I would also continue living mine while they are living theirs. Hope this helps :)
ReplyGreat job for releasing what's bothering you. Know that everyone goes through something for you to be judged.
What causes heartaches in all types of relationships is expectation. When you expect a lot you hurt a lot.
People change. Perspective changes. People outgrow people too.
This can be a learning experience or an aha moment for you welcome other people too into your life, establish new friendships.
thats ok . . . just let it out . . .
Friends are friends... both of you may change.. but she will always be that same friend.. you still have..
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