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Guysss
I really need help
I need to move on from someone and howwwww
I always get advice like keep yourself busy or stop talking to that person ...
I keep myself busy but all i think is abt him and i try not talking to him..it makes me suffer more...
I just dont know what to do...if i listen to my intuitions all i wanna do is message him "we shouldn't talk now do not ask the reason."
Should i text him this?...
Idk but i feel that i will feel better if i will text him this...idk why...
Just help me.
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ReplyI'm going through the exact same thing right now like all I can do is think about him plus I recently been through a break up with him so I can honestly say it is HARD to NOT think about them. but I been told many times is focus on myself so you gotta focus on yourself. Also what I been told was the more you text that person the more your pushing them away. Let him be. I feel like the more you focus on you the more you will be less worried. Like was it last year during november me and him stopped talking for months and all I did was cry and cry and thought about him every single day. I was so stuck on him that I wasn't taking care of myself. As months went by I learned to care and focus on myself and the more I did that the less I was worried about him. it was times I wasn't even thinking about him at all. I was so tuned into myself and working on myself and doing things that I need to get done such as school work or looking for jobs. Its hard for me to move on from this person and I'm even asking for help too because yes its hard and can be hard. but you gotta keep yourself distracted.
ReplyThankyou for this❣️...sending love.
ReplyI know that you what to message him but it’s better this way, to leave him alone and do your own thing. If he keeps messaging you in any way or you’re still connected to his social medias, then unfollow. It’s not doing you any good to stay in touch, trust me. You deserve to move on. Things that helped me was running track. I know that probably doesn’t apply to everyone so I’m not sure if it applies to you. I wasn’t a fan of exercise at all, but I gave it a chance. It makes you focus only on running and not on your thoughts. Maybe try that? It’s a process, moving on. It’ll take time and effort. You got this.
ReplyThankyou for taking out your time and helping me :)
ReplyOh honey I had the same problem and this is how I got over it.
I added him back on Snapchat and called him once a week. Then I stopped texting him. and slowly we drew apart. Then I made him mad at me. Lied to him so he could block me. and then I was best friend free. now I do not give one single fuck about him and I feel free. btw did I mention that he was my best friend of 3 years, he changed my life and I do not regret one single thing. He was gonna let me go, I heard him I guess I just had to do it first before I got hurt.
If you do not want to do this then you have to talk about him, with someone like talk about him all the time and cry a couple of times. do not ignore how u feel. and slowly your mind will just not miss him anymore. If u can't stop missing him, then think of only all the bad things he did to u. but never regret what you and him had. The biggest way is to replace him with someone. Or if that still does not work. text him and let him hurt you so youll stop missing him. it worked for me. now im just cold
ReplyI really appreciate your help...sending love.
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