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I don't think any of you will be able to help me with this, but it's worth a try and at least I'll be able to write about it.
I'm in love with my ex. I can't even try to get him back because, well, it's a long story. Basically, we did some really bad stuff, which we both feel really bad for, and our parents took away our phones and made sure there was no way we'd be able to contact/see each other ever again (wow run-on sentence aah).
The worst part is that I think he loves me and I can't do anything about it or even confirm it's true. We still follow each other on Spotify, and he recently followed me on a shared account for his family. I followed it back and tried to send messages through playlist titles, but he didn't make any to me, so I unfollowed the shared account and deleted the playlists.
I've also been having this on-and-off crush on a different guy in my class. I think he likes me, and I'm really good at detecting when people have crushes on other people. Like, I know about the Dunning-Kruger effect and this is NOT it. I'm good at this.
What should I do? Should I keep waiting on the false hope that I'll someday see my ex again? Should I seize the opportunity with the guy in my class? Should I do nothing and try to avoid all this by working on myself (or whatever)?
(btw, it is currently March 3rd and our parents separated us on January 4th, so it's been about two months)
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You should wait until you have finished all of your schooling, are more mature, ready to find a husband and then start dating.
ReplyIf you are sexually active. It’s gotta stop. Save it for marriage. Trust me. It’s a spiritual thing that’s guna benefit you for a lifetime.
Replyagreed
ReplyI'm not, and I agree with that completely.
ReplyHey love, I could relate to you on so many levels. As I had this long term relationship with my ex and I feel he still loves me and at the same time there are few amazing guys approaching me. What I want to tell you is the feeling is natural, being in love with an ex is not a sin. But for the time being, don't pay attention to these distractions. Especially your ex, if he loves you, he'll make a way towards you. If he doesn't, you are still precious. Do well in your studies/work, God will bless you with a person as good as you have been praying. Don't settle for anything lesser than that. Sending you love and hugs!! Love will find it's way.
ReplyThank you so much!
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