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I literally feel like I'm losing my mind. It's been more than two months since my boyfriend and I broke up. We still hung out after the break up. We still did the same things; actually, only our label changed. He said he didn't see our relationship working out since he's going back to his hometown and with my attitude (I'm really insecure. Like I would always ask him if he loves me, if he can do LDR), he knows it's not gonna work. So we broke up. I didn't want to but it seems like he's made up his mind. We still have sex, we still kiss and we're still sweet to each other.
Now, it's been a week since he left for his hometown. We've been communicating still. There was a time when I broke down and unloaded everything to him. How hurt I was when he gave up on me. After that, he kinda showed some effort. We kept video chatting, he even opened up about getting married and how he'd keep his promise to be there if I get pregnant. But I don't know. He keeps changing his mood. 1 minute he's sweet and gives me a glimmer of hope, the next, he won't even text me.
Should I be patient with him since I really do love him? Or should I just let him go?
I'm really afraid if the time comes that he falls for another girl.
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If he is moody and made changed his mind many times of leaving you then you should leave him before he leaves you. Because in the end he's gonna leave you. So it would be better that you take this step. You will feel better. He's still with you because he has his needs.
Okay , let's give him this last chance if you want as he is saying that he will marry you.
Trust him for last time , and see how the things goes. And if he changed his mind even now then take it as your last time for being with him.
Because don't be so dependent on someone who don't want to be with you at last.
ReplyHi! Yes, I'll give it one more shot because I really do love him and I want this to work. If he still doesn't give me anything, I'll cut it. Thanks!
ReplyI feel you. I was into a relationship for 6years long . LDR. It worked for us until our parents disagree or our misunderstandings finish our love. We still love each other but we not in a relationship anymore. It is very important to have courage and strength to be in a long distance relationship. If you both really love each other please communicate with each other at least you will not regret after times. Give your efforts at present . My ex used to say getting tensed about future only makes our present valueless . Don't waste today. Think and prioritize yourself . Know your limits. You can talk to me anytime. Be brave.
ReplyI just don't until when I should extend my efforts. I really want us to work. But I guess we won't if I'm the only one doing the work. :( thank you for sharing and for your advice.
ReplyCurrently you believe that you need someone (this guy) to complete you. As long as you believe this, it will be true for you. When you change your mind, you change your life not the other way around. Check out Aaron Abke on youtube. He has dozens of videos on this topic that can get you started unless, of course, you want to maintain your insecurity. I'm guessing you will this exploration a try.
ReplyHi! Yes, I'll give this a try. Hopefully this will change my mindset. Thank you.
ReplyI'm a guy and he is annoyed asf from u. He loves u so much. but the fact that you could not see that and questioned his love every chance u got, how u were too clingy and insecure just made him annoyed asf. but he still loves what u guys had but not what it turned u into when you guys were together hopefully u understand. Don't go asking him. Is this true? bc that's just fucking annoying even more. Treat him like a friend. U need a friend like him that knows u. Dont make him feel bad for u all the time. If he dont wanna marry u dont lt him. BUt u need a friend that knows u like that.
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