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So here is the thing. I just got off the phone with my ex boyfriend. (he still calls me because we are friends) anyways....he lives 1000 miles away , in a different country. He he persistent to meet me. ( we never met) because of covid I dont know if he can. All I would have to do is send a letter(I havent found out to who yet) sending an invitation to the united states. I would have to write the letter. The thing is he thinks im scared to meet him. im not. we are not dating and I rather continue to be his friend over the phone. He told me he would purpose to me if he meets me . I dont want to marry him. the thing is I made a mistake in responding back to him the first time ( we met online) He is black. i am black. but the weird thing is I have a preference for white men. I told him at the begenning of our relationship. He got upset. I just dont want to marry a black man . i know im black but i have a preference. I was going to tell him we shouldnt talk anymore but i was told that isnt right ,then i was going to ghost him, that isnt right because I dont want these things done to me. I dont know what to do . He also told me his height and he is a little shorter than me . I only like guys who are my height and taller. I really dont know what to do. What should I do? I told him I rather be friends but he isnt getting it. ( if we end up meeting my parents and his brother would be there also. so I would not be alone.
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How can someone propose a lifetime marriage to someone they've never met? That sounds like a major warning sign right there, and you're right to put on the brakes. Sounds like you've told him a bunch of different ways that you're not interested that way, but he keeps pressing. Maybe you can slow-fade ghost him? Like instead of completely going silent, you could reply less frequently, once a week, then once every 2 weeks, then eventually stop. Would that be a "gentle" way of ghosting him? After all, you've tried the direct approach and that didn't seem to do anything, so what else is left?
ReplyI would have to agree with this advice.
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