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3 years ago · 4 · Dismiss, +13 · Explicit
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Quarantine has me feeling paralyzed. Said that to someone and their reaction was that I couldn't have found a more dumb reason to feel like that, just because of having nothing to do. The longer I stay in, the longer I have no reason to go out, the more paralyzed I feel. And it's not entirely due to quarantine, but growing up.
"So what? Everyone does" doesn't make a difference.
"So what? I've gone through worse" doesn't make a difference.
I am still stuck on a bed, whether you have gone through worse or not, whether the whole world is affected or not.
"This happened", "ha, this happened to me x4".
Like, okay, you went through worse stuff, I am weaker, very much so. But, I don't choose to feel like this over something small. I mean, it is small. But I don't choose it.
And fuck me. But please don't do this to others. Listen them out. Hear what they are saying. Remove yourself for a while, your ego, don't make them feel even more useless than they already are feeling. Try to see their point of view, their side, from their own perspective. Try to understand a bit.
𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐦𝐢𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦.
𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐝𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝟓 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐭 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐰𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐫 𝟏𝟓, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐝𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠.
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ReplyThat is self-centered as well, stranger. "I am trying to figure out how messed up I really am". I don't understand why people involve themselves in what others describe.
ReplyI think assuming is where we all go wrong. And assuming means we didn't really listen.
ReplyWe listen through the filter of our self, which also means we don't really listen to what the other person says.
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