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i have always secretly loved talking to witty people. people who challenge me and make me reply in the same, clever way.
i am so thankful, because today i was able to spend a couple of hours with a few witty people. not so much "extremely intelligent", but they were clever in a way that made communicating fun.
there's another layer of connecting with people - not the superficial layer of gossiping about what others are doing, not the deep questions/convo that you do at 2 am...
a light hearted, intentional conversation.
i love laughing, so a good conversation in my opinion, will include some laughter.
it's not flirting either. yes, they were all the opposite gender, but it wasn't romantic or "heated" in that way. it was "teasing" in a friendly but not really friendly way. it's hard to describe.
it was pleasant. it was a type of human interaction that felt comfortable and fun. i didn't have to act that much different. i didn't feel this sort of pressure of "don't say the wrong thing".
everything i said sort of just rolled off my tongue.
i secretly enjoy a little heat in conversations - that "heat" being playfulness and challenge. challenges can be hard, but extremely fun.
again, it's hard to describe.
i have countless lenses i use to see people and to view the world - i'm always changing the lens wherever i go. but those couple hours today? it felt like friendship.
it's been a tough few years.
oh man, that sentence was so loaded haha, it's making me tear up.
i am an extremely thankful person. i become a more content person everyday. but can i just say: if you have people in your life you can 100% trust, who you don't have to filter yourself for, who don't make you feel like a waste of space- if you're able to have conversations that make you happy almost everyday, you are blessed. treasure those people and care for them.
but yeah!
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