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(Trigger Warning: Homophobia, homophobic slurs)
So, in the dream I got in this elevator, and there were some people asking me if I was a lesbian. If it were real, I probably would've been scared like "How did they know?" But dream-me was just confused. Anyways, I got off the elevator and went to a spiral staircase. The people followed me, and as I climbed the stairs they kept asking me if I was a lesbian. For some reason dream-me didn't say "No" and leave the stairwell? As I climbed higher, they began using slurs like d*k3. It eventually got ot a point where the stairs got unsafe (The people kept putting unsafe supplies like pillows as steps). So FINALLY, I climbed down.
I don't remember much after that, but I did wake up to process the entire thing. It was weird, and honestly scary. Just yesterday was I thinking about ways to come out to my family and bestie.
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sounds like you might be having these dreams because you're worried about how your family will react when you come out. while coming out is an important step to being comfortable in your identity, your safety ALWAYS comes first. are you afraid because you know the people in your life are not accepting of the LGBTQ community? or do you know they are accepting and you're just nervous? if it's the latter, i'm excited for you and you should definitely start thinking about coming out to them! however, if there's a possibility you'll put yourself in danger by coming out, you should consider surrounding yourself with different people and making sure you're not in a place where anyone can hurt you. good luck!
ReplyMy friend is a part of LGBTQ, and my family is supportive of it, though I'm scared that they will say things like, "Are you sure? Your too young to know that." I'm also scared that they will think I automatically have a crush on all the girls (All my friends are girls!) I was planning to tell my therapist first, then my friend. Then I would make a video explaining the entire thing and send it to my family. I guess I'll just tell them what not to do surrounding it.
Replytelling your therapist first is a great idea! i suggest you tell your therapist, then your friend, then your family. parents always say stuff like that, mine did when i came out, but they'll get over it. and yes, you should express to them what they shouldn't do, tell them clearly you're not too young to know and you definitely don't have crushes on all your friends.
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