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i love when you say hi
i love when you laugh
i love the way you part your hair
i love the way you smile
i love how you support me in everything i do
i love when you hold my hand
i love how you listen to me when i talk
i hate how im too nervous to talk to you
i hate how we barely talk
i hate how you spend significantly more time with friends
i hate how you stopped sending good morning and goodnight messages
i hate how you haven't kissed me yet
i love you, and you say you love me. I don't understand why after 5 months of dating it still feels like it did 3 months ago. I get that both of our lives are busy but you arent too busy to go out with your friends on tuesday but cancel on me with no reschedule 2 days prior? I know this is your first relationship and you don't know how to do anything but it isn't fair for me to feel like i'm the one who's constantly at fault. I'm making this sound like our relationship is bad, its not its actually great. There are just some things that could be fixed and yet i'm too afraid to tell you because I dont want to seem to needy. I constantly need reassurance and god do i feel awful constantly making sure you still love me even though you constantly tell me you do. We were in the middle of a conversation, an important one too, and you stopped answering but were on your phone. I just- I honestly dont know how to end this, but i love you and yet im too scared to tell you what is wrong.
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honey, if they're making more time for their friends than for you, they don't truly care about how you feel. they just know they have a "girlfriend" but they don't take the responsibility that comes with having a partner: reassurance, attention, respect, communication, etc. they love the idea of you, not really you; they love that they have you, that they can always talk to you when they want, that they can say they have a "girlfriend", etc. Sweetheart, if you can't talk to them whenever you want without interruption, make plans without cancellation, etc, then is it really love, or is possession? They possess you so that nobody else can but they don't care enough to do the work of keeping you. It's not a healthy relationship if you're questioning things, can't talk to them about things or your feelings, and/or whatever else. this is all off of assumption so I'm sorry if I'm wrong but please try to communicate with him your feelings and work things out :,(
Replyi was going through the same dilemma. i know exactly how you feel. even i didnt want to sound needy. so that is when i read a book named 5 love languages and even made my partner read that book. after reading we realised what is my and what is his love language so we can communicate our love to each other better. you should try reading that book
Replyi was going through the same dilemma. i know exactly how you feel. even i didnt want to sound needy. so that is when i read a book named 5 love languages and even made my partner read that book. after reading we realised what is my and what is his love language so we can communicate our love to each other better. you should try reading that book
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