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I’ve been trying to work on my self esteem.. Growing up, I’ve encountered a lot of failures, criticism and rejections. These things made me feel like I don’t belong anywhere. My insecurities got worse when I discovered that I have an eczema which makes my skin sensitive of dust and the weather... I hate the fact that my scars doesn’t totally heal or fade away because of eczema... I cannot wear fancy clothes like dresses and shorts... I feel like I’m missing a lot of good things because of it.. I can’t even go to beach with my friends because I’m afraid to show them my flaws. Haisst...I really have it, I can’t even start dating with a guy because I’m afraid it would turn them off! I dunno if it would really matter to them. What do u guys think? :(
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I only want to say one thing to you right now. All of us are imperfect and all of us worried about making someone else happy. The day you accept your skin happily is when you will be confident about someone else accepting it too. Think closely. Everyone has flaws. Wear them with pride. Put less pressure on yourself.
ReplyAs stated by the prior individual, find peace in yourself. There is a man who has no arms or legs, but lives a fulfilling life with a loving wife. For your life, find out more about yourself, see where your personal energy flows most naturally (music, mechanisms, numbers, movement, ideas, locations, activities). In you are mysteries to be discovered. People want to live well, and they want to enjoy life. We are all still trying to figure out how this world works, so collaborate, participate, you are more than welcome to. Take each day as it arrives, let love guide in all things, and remember that we love you *hug* 💖
ReplyHere is the deal. We (each of us) control very little in our life and things will change in unpredictable ways. When we accept that this is so, a lot of pressure to get this or that, to do this or that vanishes. We can, however, manage our response to that which occurs.
Our lack of control and the changing nature of all things leaves managing our response as our only for certain option.
We should still get out into the world and try some stuff with all of this in mind. The real important things will continue to be agonizing at times. However, your other pursuits can be less problematic if you;
• Treat them as games that focus on having fun, realizing that there will be both wins and losses.
• Don't take full credit for successes or full responsibility for poor results when other factors are involved. The impact of these influences can’t be measured and can be significant. Undeserved ‘puff ups’ or ‘beat downs’ are not helpful.
• Accept (don't deny or resist) the presence of unpleasant circumstances or events before deciding whether or how to react. Undoing what has happened is impossible.
Going more with the flow of life (just experiencing with less judgment) is probably the best way forward.
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