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i felt bad when i disappoint my girl. it always hits me, I always overlooked everything. i overthink everything. i want to change myself for the betterment of our relationship and me of course. it brings me a huge anxiety whenever I over think something, I want to be better version of me. i want to change how I think. it stresses me out. i want to change and I don't know how. i always ask the Lord why am I like this, why he gives me thoughts to over think about and sometimes I realized, it is me who making big deals out of nothing. i will lay in bed tonight with a heavy heart, I hope she's fine. i hope everything is doing great.
i just want to be a caring, loving boyfriend but sometimes it turned out to be bad. i need to know how to control this. this is not good.
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hi!
as a girl i would want to discuss this with my boyfriend! i think she would want to know that ur trying everything. and one thing is important TRUST EACH OTHER! if thats there then there is no need to worry. girl dont want much. i mean every is different. and dont worry im an ovethinker too, i do a lot i know how you feel. try to just love her and dont be insecure or overthink anything just live. bc the overthinking brought me nowhere and i would do anything to reverse it. so enjoy life i hope evrything will work out! and you should relax. like really really relax. thats what we all need. and again trust esch other! thats where the relationship start! and also talk to her it reakky helps!
hope you will feel better.
yasmine
ReplyI will endorse the comment above mine. Very good advice.
And I'll add a few questions.
What exactly are you overthinking about? Is it jealousy or mistrust? Like do you feel like she's being unfaithful?
Or are you worried about small things that don't seem to bother her?
Are you being a tad too clingy? Maybe not giving her enough space to be herself?
Exactly what ways are you overthinking?
Replyi dont know how old you are, but you have to look at your past and understand why you react the way you do, and instead of reacting to a situation just sit back and observe and don't let your emotions take over you, your emotions and thoughts create your own reality. you have to know when to let things go when they aren't your problem. you have to truly love yourself first before you can put effort into someone else.
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