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I just asked a girl for her number and I cant seem to forget how my hands were shaking so bad that I messed up a couple of messages because of typos...she agreed and gave me her number but I cant seem to understand why did she approve why didn't she approve just like every other one of them did what did she saw in me that made her approve of doing it and now I hate myself for doing it because what if she didn't want to give me her number but she just did it so she doesn't let me down like everyone did to me...the worst part is I don't know how to start a conversation with her we would be talking for hours but then the conversation die and there's nothing else I can say to keep the conversation going and yes i know conversations are meant to die eventually but I don't want that and its so selfish of me to ask for such a thing because I know I'm not the center of the universe but I just cant I want to talk to her every single moment of the day
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dudeee!!! RELAX!! seriously....take deep breathes and go do something else that you dearly love and KEEP THAT PHONE AWAY...im a over thinker too and for peace of our mind we should get rid of the things that lead to situations like this for few hours or so untill you start thinking straight. When you keep overthinking nothing you think can be fully trusted. so relax a bit
Replyanyway...since it was nearly 3 hours ago...i hope ur fine now
ReplyYou see as a teenager I love video games a lot because its super fun and it helps me relax or maybe get my mind of stuff that bothering me just like this situation but its all fun and games until parents decided that I'm not allowed to play video games anytime during school not even weekends the only time I'm allowed to play video games is when we have a break from school such as summer break or winter break and all this so its like they took away my last life line to escape overthinking nd my anxiety and they wont understand this struggle sometimes I workout really hard until I cant move a muscle just so I can escape overthinking but it doesn't help that much now.
ReplyI understand u are having such a hard time with this...did you try talking about it...or speaking to someone what ur probably overthinking about..sometimes venting out ur emotions to someone or writing it down helps too
ReplyI used to have a crush on a girl I just met from the club that I involved in college. We talked at the club meeting but I was never satisfied. I like her. Just like you, I wanna talk to her everyday. So, every night before we went to sleep, I asked her a question, something deep, big talk, so I get to continue the conversation the next day, and the day after that. We're kinda close now, very close I could say. Little did I know that, she enjoys the conversation too, that she wanted to talk to me too everyday. You can actually feel it whether the person you wanna talk to, wants to talk to you too or not. Goodluck.
ReplyI do that too sometimes we talk about deep things to keep the conversation going for hours but the thing is sometimes it feels like we both are enjoying the conversation and other times it doesn't feel like she wants to talk at all an I wont ever force her into talking if she doesn't want to do because no one likes being forced into doing something they don't want to do....maybe she needs some space and I'm okay with that but my mind cant seem to stop thinking and it sucks
ReplyMaybe you should find a hobby that you can talk about or share with her later. Or maybe you can make a list of things to talk to her about while waiting for her mood to come around. If she still wanna talk, she'll find you. Don't worry. Don't think too much. :)
ReplyNooo do it! It doesn’t matter whatever the outcome. Don’t hate yourself for asking for a girls number and texting her seriously
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