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So.. I've been talking to this guy. We flirted every now and then.
And. I introduced him to my friend.
And. She knew that I like him.
And. She told me that she has been chatting with him for 3 hours.
She told me that the guy thinks she's weird. Because she told him(as a joke. Is what she's telling me) "I'm studying you" and he replied with "oh so is this your way to get to know me? I've never met anyone like you"
She told me all this btw. She probably doesn't know... What she's doing... Seems like flirting....
Is this what I think it is or am I just overthinking? ._. and jealous
Well.. whatever it is.. this is a good opportunity for me to... REMOVE MYSELF FROM FEELINGS!!! I REFUSE TO CATCH FEELINGS!!!! I'll move on from the guy :')
Now, you're probably thinking. You're not gonna fight?!? No. I'm not.
Because. I don't even know if he likes me back or just being nice. And. I don't want to lose my friend.
Sigh. Overthinking and jealous +100
I hate feelings. Maybe I should move on regardless the situation >_>
Pls tell me what their interaction looks like and whether my overthinking is clouded by jelousy.
Because I really hate the way I'm doubting both of them rn. I hate that I can't trust them :') now then, why don't I just ask?
Oho! I did(my friend. Not the guy) and it seems like she's oblivious to it.. she just broke up with her boyfriend btw. And.. she hept saying that the guy talked about me. But.. thing is... I feel like they're only talking about me because that's a mutual topic... Other than that, they talked about games. And the one who started the convo was him.
Maybe I'm just mistaking someone being nice as flirting.
Sighhhhhh if he was just being nice, then I feel like such a fool.
Pls. How to move on :')
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Awww i feel like I’ve there ): when we mistaken a guy with liking us a little bit and then they just wanted to be friends 🥲. Even though they flirt too sometimes and then hit you with the oh I’m not ready for a relationship. Now regarding your friend, since he started the convo with her maybe when she said she’s studying him was weather he would be a good Match for you or a bad choice. I hope lol. If she doesn’t see him like that then you should be okay, maybe like when you talk with this guy ask him if he has a crush on someone and if he hints you, go for it and if it looks like someone else then it’s time to move on. Listen to your gut! Your gut is always right.
ReplyFind a good space and time to be alone then feel that jealousy. Feel it. Don't fight it. Don't block it out.And just... well, listen to it. Say hi to your jealousy. Ask her why she felt the need to show up now. Ask her what she is trying to tell you. Because your emotions can really be your best friends if you work with them instead of against them like the world conditions us to.
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