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I'm 15 and In early 2017 I met a girl named Eve online. We called and played tons of games together and it wasn't until 2020 that I realized she's toxic. She gets attached to guys online and starts planning her day around them, does their homework, and forgets about herself and her friends. She met this guy in Feb (2020) and all she'd talk about was him 3 hours a day. She eventually stopped talking to me more and was always with him online 12 hours a day. She'd call about advice for their relationship fights and that was it. Eventually they broke up and she threatened to kill herself then got into the mindset without boys with a healthy attitude then stalked got on his game and got back together with him. While that was going on I was cheating on my boyfriend. It was incredibly stupid and 10 months later I blame myself daily but I'm learning self love and I'm glad he stuck with me and wanted to work on our relationship. She encouraged my cheating and wanted me to break up with my boyfriend. Eventually in October of 2020 I ended things with her and sent her an essay wishing her the best life and how I appreciated her but don't feel comfortable anymore. She was nice about it then I got hate messages and lovely messages every week because she was in denial. In Late November she asked to call because she wanted to ask questions so she could move on which I agreed to so she can live her best life. She talked like we were friends when I only wanted to talk to her about what she wanted to ask. She kept begging to be my friend and I felt she was guilt tripping me at the same time and I agreed to it. I ghosted her because I felt uneasy and my friends told me that it was my best choice unless I want to have hate messages. Eventually she gave up and messaged my boyfriend at one point who knew nothing about my issues with her. I just got a message from a number who's hers and she gave me the eyeballs emoji. I said "who's this?" knowing it's her but pretending I don't know the number. I don't know whether I should block her or when she replies tell her I hope she's doing well and has a good life. I'd be friends with her If I knew it was healthy but she'd constantly call me basic or fight with me about my own incurable disease saying the brain can magically heal incurable diseases and how green tea cures corona and we'd fight constantly over politics. We were both toxic but I want to be prepared so I know how to handle this situation because I know it'll turn into one.
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