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hi. i'm a 18 yo student living in a homophobic country -which also sucks in other aspects- like economy,basic human rights such as women rights,lgbtq rights etc. in my country we have to take a major exam at the end of high school and we'll get a mark from it and we'll go to a university with that mark. it's giving me anxiety. i don't want to go to a bad university and not be able to be myself for longer. i want to go to a good university where i won't be surrounded by bigots and i finally want to be the person i always wanted to be. then i want to move out of this country and live abroad in a country where i can at least have the right to marry another man(which is something i can't do here) but i'm so scared about like everything that i can't focus on my studies. it's also pretty unfair because i have to take other lessons in the exam such as math,science and my native language but my english is probably the only lesson i'm good at. it's all just scary and i don't know what to do. i just keep hoping & praying. i also have issues with homophobia. my mother is homophobic. she keeps talking like "when you get married you and your wife..." like NO i won't have a wife. i will have a husband. i came out to my older sister last year she was supportive she also has lgbtq+ friends but she keeps using homophobic slurs and it's annoying. i also hate how my relatives,my mother,sister etc. talk about me as if i'm the bad son just because i don't wanna live here. like- sorry for wanting basic human rights??? anyways i have too much to vent and i don't even know. my late father was pretty homophobic too he would've never accepted me if i came out to him. he would probably kick me out of the house. he passed away because of cancer and i'm really sad because i never had a chance to have a good relationship with him. he was an angry and hard to get on with person in general. i just want to be happy and be me.
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For any man who is hetero - it is quite simple to understand that being gay is NOT a choice.
If you are a 100% hetero man - just ask yourself if the idea of another man giving you oral sex arouses you, in other words - if you are a 100% hetero man would you accept an offer from another man to give you oral sex? No, you would not if you are 100% hetero, because a man who is 100% hetero cannot suddenly turn gay for the pleasure of free oral sex.
Being hetero or being gay is not a choice - it just is.
Fellow-heteros: Stop bashing on people for something they cannot choose - sexual orientation is not a choice. It just is what it is.
Replyi'm the poster and thank u for this. i just wish i could show this reply to every homophobic bitches.
ReplyI don't know why but i feel like i know the country you live in, I'll just tell you what, put a goal, for example make ot your goal to travel outside your country and live happilly, and when you want to study think of your goal, it may seem hard, but I'm sure you can do it, I don't think your family will ever change, so just try to find people who'll support you...I'm cheering for you fellow stranger...✨you can do it✨
Replyheyy,sorry for replying 3 days late! it is my goal to go abroad yes,but i'm just scared because of the university exam and other shit..
ReplyIt's ok if you replied late, no pressure...hmmm i can relate since I'm in an important year too and my exam isn't far away either, the goal thing is something that my friend told me when i told her i feel that life has no taste, and when i did set a goal it really helped me improve in many ways and it also made me work hard, i don't know you personally and i know nothing about your grades in general so I'm not the judge here, but i think that if you work hard you'll get as much as how hard you worked, just like karma works but this time it's good, exam anxiety is normal, i just hope that it doesn't interfere with your studying, try relaxing music and breathing exercises, keep on praying and put your faith in god, he doesn't let down anyone i promise you, just keep on working hard since this is the most realistic and effective thing and i really hope that you get good results so you can go abroad and live the life you want, i would really like to know what happens to you after taking the exam, and when you lose hope in studying or anything in general remeber that i got your back and that I'm always praying for you (i hope I didn't sound too much of a pushover, i want to offer support but i feel like i came ot to be cringy anyways that's not what we were talking about) 🦄 (A random emoji just so I don't feel awkward :) )
Replyomgg nooo you didn't sound awkward or pushover at all in fact you made me go "🥺❤" thank you for these good messages, wishes and prayers!
ReplyI'm always cheering for you
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