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Everybody is different. Everyone is not always going to be the same. Each person goes through different things at different times. But it's always nice to be there for those and show them you're never leaving.
Your best friend is going through something very emotional if she's incapable of revealing her emotions. You're doing the best you can to make her open up and be happy again. But why leave your best friend when she's at her roughest spot?? You're trying so hard, and that's great. But once you leave, you're going to make her fall more than she's ever fallen before.
You may think she may not care about you. She may show you no emotions whatsoever while you're over here, trying your hardest to get your best friend back. But here's the thing: She's not going to switch back to her old self in just 3 seconds, it takes time. Everybody comes back when they're ready. We can't force anything on them. The best we can do for them is ask them what we can do to help them, and if they want to be alone, leave them be for a couple hours and come back to make sure they're doing fine. That's the best you can do.
My advice?? Stick by your best friend. Don't make her feel like she's not worth saving. She knows you're there for her. She can see how helpful you are each day that you're there by her side. Trust me. She's just not able to show anything back because she's feeling her worst at the moment. But I promise you, she's so proud to call you her best friend.
Ask her what you can do to make her feel a little bit better. Do things that make her feel better piece by piece. Each day, you should try making goals. Do something kind for that day and come up with another goal the next. And keep going. If you try doing all of them on the same day, it could cause stress. And I know it's hard already. But I promise you that all that hard work will be worth it.
Ask people, that you know, for help. It's always good to help others as a team. Don't try and do everything yourself. It's not a good idea. Always work with others to help those in need. I hope this helps! And I hope your best friend gets better soon!! Stay safe!!
- The_Hidden_Teen18
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