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I met a guy online. 7 years ago. We became friends. Great friends.
I fell in love with him. We started dating 3 years ago. Never met him in person. It was all online. I was happy being with him. I can't see myself loving someone else.
We had talks about meeting in person and stuff. A bit talk on marriage but we were both "enjoy the now" people. Lol
We are of different religion btw. He isn't religious but his family is. So that's the problem.
Just a few days ago, his mom find out about us. She didn't like the idea of us being together. Man, I cried way too much when she told him to break up with me. He chose to stay with me but he's torn.
I love him. A lot. If I could, I'd fly to where he is right now. I don't want to let go but I can feel things are getting difficult for him. I told him we can stop now and start moving on but he won't listen. He still wants to continue this. He said maybe eventually we'd learn to accept things and we can let go without getting hurt too much.
No, that doesn't sit well with me. I'm worried about him. I'm worried about his mom's wellbeing too.
I wonder if it's time to let go. I wonder if it's best to just leave him and cut our communication.
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It would be unfair if u cut ur communication with him, leaving him with no choice but to move on. If he's the one suffering, it's his pain to decide whether he can handle it or not. It's good that u r worried abt him and his mom but this should be a mutual decision.
ReplyGirl don't let go ..
If he is ready to bear the stress it's all because he loves you .. he is the one who have decided to stay with you so you can't be the one to decide for him ...
And cutting of all connections is the worst thing u can do to him ... maybe even his family would get a chance to tell him that you were just playing around with him .. which eventually gonna hurt him even more ..
ReplyHey, I don't know if this will really help but:
If you love him, and he loves you, then you should definitely continue the relationship. Although, if you feel yourself being distanced from him, as if you guys are falling out of love, or maybe he's too torn over this situation, or it's getting too hard, then it may be better to reconsider the relationship. If you do end up deciding you want to end it, please talk to him seriously, don't just cut him off, it will break him into a million pieces.
Don't let his mother decide if you two continue your future together. If you truly love each other, then stay together. Honestly, I'm amazed at how long you've talked with each other, it's hard to keep a relationship with someone online.
Please think about this hard, and don't do something you'll regret. All my best wishes to you. <3 Just remember you're your own person, it's your decision, not anyone else's.
Replydon't let go
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