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So I am dating around on a dating app. I mentioned someone I matched with before on an app unfortunately nothing materialised from it. I have nothing bad to say about her whatsoever as in my mind you win some you lose some, she was cool and a positive experience.
I kept my options open and matched with someone about three weeks ago. She legit looks like a model, very tall 5 ft 8 and is mixed race (half asian , half english)
She speaks about 4-5 languages and is highly educated. I was actually surprised we matched as it turned out she liked my profile first. I thought this is too good to be true am I being catfished? But when you look her up you can see her at her profession writing articles and partaking in seminars. We started to gel more on the weekend after we matched. I think she is one of those types where it takes a while before she really gets into someone. She asked me if I danced? so I sent a voice note to explain my history with dancing ( I am good now) it made her laugh...she said you made me giggle....then the next thing she said was....would you like to meet up for a drink?
anxiety kicks right in for about five minutes , but I immediately reply with yes and send out my number to further exchange details etc.
So I did not hear anything for a few days ,(two) at first I thought oh dear did we rush it too fast, but she did ask you out? Maybe she got nervous or sensed your anxiety via text.....or perhaps the nature of her job (she works in a very demanding profession) the healthcare sector and the particular field she is in is undergoing a big change which could impact the way after care programs are managed.
she messaged me to say as much and I understood, which helped versus me flying off the handle. We talked more and more voice notes were exchanged several by the way and then we had a video date.
I still had it in my mind is it too good to be true? but when she called, there she was and legit looks like a model, very beautiful , very intelligent and articulate.
2 hours plus felt like 10 minutes. we definitely clicked .
but those nerves i have to contend with and compete with kicked in, that inner critic starts speaking
she is several levels above you? she will get bored? I give it two weeks? oh look nust settle for someone lower? This is way above your league? perhaps your not smart enough?
Part two will come tomorrow because I think it ties in with my dating past and one particular time.
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Sounds great! I just think you're placing too much importance on her looks and professional life.
There's a person in there only she can see. Get to know that part, and you'll be fine.
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