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I've been dating the same guy for five years. I feel like we know each other well enough to talk about anything, I trust him and I know he trusts me as well.
But there's one thing I never really discuss with him because it makes me feel bad. He has a friend who likes to be affectionate. She usually hugs him and sends him cute text messages, she's constantly asking him how he's doing, she likes to reminisce a lot and that bothers me a little because she always talks about when they were younger and I wasn't around. I sometimes get the feeling she does it so that I can feel left out.
I've recently found out he has a playlist full of songs they used to listen to together, when they were younger. About three weeks ago I discoved some weird texting, she was basically telling him she dreamed I was being nasty to both of them out of jealousy. He laughed it off but I thought it was so bizarre, I don't know what she's going for with this.
She says she thinks of me a friend but she has never mentioned this weird dream to me. I've noticed she tends to reply to my boyfriend a lot faster than when we're talking (she usually starts a conversation with me but takes weeks to answer my messages, whereas she answers my boyfriend almost instantaneously).
She has a loving boyfriend but she's the type of girl who was always friendly with guys, to the point of getting them confused by her kindness and lovable nature. I remember meeting her at first and thinking she didn't actually mean to make her friends fall for her, but it's a pattern that repeats itself over and over again, so I don't know.
Am I just being jealous and silly or maybe I'm not so wrong after all?
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I've dealt with people like her. So annoying. Just be nice, is all. Even when she's really annoying. Don't worry. She's doing it on purpose. Don't feel bad for feeling this way.
ReplyYeah something is definitely up with her. I don't know what she's planning but if your boyfriend don't see her that way and does not do anything more than friend then it is still in the safe zone. I have a feeling that she's trying to make you jealous on purpose and just rile you up. Just ignore her when you think she's just doing something to purposely make you mad.
ReplyI have never been in your situation but I just wanted you to know I have read your story.From my point of view, I think the best thing would be to talk your boyfriend. I know that might be hard because you don’t want to come off as bad, but communication is very important in a relationship. I don’t think you should have these thoughts mentally affecting you in your relationship. You need to be able to share your feeling with your boyfriend and have a mutual relationship with him. If it truly bothers you I think you should let him know and then try to come up with a way you can solve it both together. Love is not always flowers and glitter....it’s times like these that one needs to be strong to go past the questions,thoughts,jealousy feelings and just be open with your partner. You are a human being. Your feelings are normal. You are brave to share your thought. I hope you decide to do what’s best for you and your relationship.
Take care, be safe.
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