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My mother in laws family is the biggest stresser in my life. I am currently 5m pregnant with my first child and my mother in laws family does nothing but worry me. They are very stuck in theri ways and methods of whats okay for babies and children; even if those methods are no longer considered safe. My mother in law once told me to mix cows milk amd corn syrup in a bottle if Im ever in a pinch for formula. Even though she knows i want to strictly breastfeed plus COWS MILK! CORN SYRUP! is she insane. They once told me to mix teething powder (which is something thay is no longer made for babies) with honey and rub it in my babies mouth while teething. Anytime i tell them that things are not safe i get told that it worked for them. I even got told having the car seat facing backwards is unsafe. They tell me pampers will make my baby have a allergic reaction (even though i havent had the baby yet so we wouldnt know). They believe the size of your breasts determines how much milk you produce. Not kidding. The thought of anyone in my mother in laws family even holding my baby give me anxiety. I once got told by multiple males in the family "dont leave you child in a room with me alone i dont want to be accused of anything" im a sexual abuse survivor and they tell me this. I have a strict plan only my family and spouse will be allowed to watch, feed, clothe, or bathe my baby. Honestly if it was up to me my mother in laws family would have no contact with my baby. Unfortunately my husband is a very close with his mom (she was a stay at home mom his whole life) even though he doesnt agree with his mom about alot of things when it comes to our baby he sadly believes that his mom will know better once our baby gets here so i shouldnt worry about leaving our child with her. But his mok how more problems then how she believes a baby can be raised. She is dirty. She keeps expired food, doesn't clean, her dogs pee on the floor and she just puts baking soda on it to then vacuum it up, she has no food standards, plus they have well water that she uses to cook with but says she wouldnt even give her dogs that water. Plus she has a bad attitude, gets mad very easily, and low key hopes my child will be an asshole i know shes told me so.
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