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My bf is crying a lot rn and he won't tell me why because he says he did something bad and doesn't want me to know or ill hate him and now idk how to get him to stop crying so much
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It sounds like he’s sorta manipulating you. I mean, why would he get you worked up by saying he did something bad, then refuse to tell you? It sounds like he’s trying to get you to forgive him without knowing what it’s about???
ReplyHi ma'am,
I don't personally know you or your relationship with your Boyfriend,
But all I want so say is that, if you want him stop crying then just go to him, sit beside him and hold his hand and tell him that you are never going to leave him.
Atleast that's what my girlfriend once did.
In my case she figured why I was crying and what bad thing I did,
My knuckles were bleeding that day because I had a fight with my senior so my girlfriend saw my knuckles and understood what went wrong,
She immediately hugged me and told me that she would never leave me,
She didn't stop hugging me for like 20 minutes or something like that,
She sat by my side holding both of hands in hers, she was aware that the blood was dripping from my knuckles to her hands but she gently wiped my hands with her shirt.
So I just wanna say that yes he could have done something bad but please be there for him even if you don't say anything, just sit beside him.
Trust me, he will never forget that.
It will always be a memory he will cherish.
Thanks for reading (if you did)
ReplyI had an ex that did this to me once. I was supportive and didn’t pry as to what happened. 3-4 years later he decides to tell me that him and his friends went and shot at someone’s house with assault rifles. That was why he needed to hide the vehicle in my moms garage. I was so disgusted and could not believe I got mixed up with that monster. I was totally brainwashed and manipulated. I got myself out of that situation as quickly as possible.
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