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He comes home from work and doesn't speak. He critics what I eat, what I wear, and what I say. I can't have an opinion or a general conversation without being cut off. I feel low, stupid, unattractive, and alone. I voice my concerns but do you think he cares? No, he pretends to understand and then turns right around and do the same things I've asked him not to do. I want things to work, I want things to survive.... but what would that mean for my happiness?
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ReplyNo ones opinion of you matters, except your own.
If he is typically very controlling, showing emotion over his rejection of your opinion could be fueling his ego.
As a test, if you typically resist his criticing, try accepting it and see how he responds, if he changes subjects in an attempt to anger you then he is simply manipulating you to get a rise.
If hes not physically abusive and the opposite is true, that you usually dont resist his critics, do so, if he doesn't like something you are wearing, tell him you love it and will wear it as often as you can because of how pretty/comfortable it is. If he backs down tell him you want to get therapy as a couple, but if it angers him seek personal assistance.
Do you think the marriage is salvageable if he wont even hear your opinion?
But remember this can be a touchy position depending on a lot of factors.
Do you live in a country that provides you equal rights as your partner?
These very particular comments fall within the boundaries of Men of various Foreign countries.
But the rights of women are slowly trickling their way through the various cultures.
All women should be of the same standing as any man, but sometimes its not that way.
Be mindful of your actions and dont put yourself in harms way.
Be carful and seek professional assistance if you need to, do let him hurt you.
No relationship should involve pain
ReplyIf he doesn't value your words than what's the use of being with him...you are showing love for him and all he do is ignore you ..talk to him what's going on this is not working for me. Might help ....hope you get out of this mess take care love
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