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WARNING *a little NSFW* Ok so when I was in 8th grade (I am in 10th-grade rn) there was a girl who would ask me to... touch her in that area (We will call her Chloe). She would put her head back in this way that made me get butterflies and I has able to hear her breath get louder whenever I touched her. She would ask me when we were in class and her face would get red because she didn't want the teacher to see and she was holding it back. I remember Chloe was the first person whose private part I saw when she showed me. I have had a feeling of attraction with Chloe for a long time (Since we were in 4th grade) and I keep telling myself it is all in my head. This continued from the beginning of 8th grade to the end of 9th grade. Chloe just recently came out as bisexual a few months ago and I have been wanting to tell her since. I know she doesn't feel the same way that I do because she tells me all about her crushes and her boyfriends/girlfriends every time she gets one. I made clear hints about it before but she never responded to any of them. I just wish Chloe felt the same way I did. I am also bisexual and have had multiple girlfriends and boyfriends in the past. Should I tell Chloe how I feel or should I keep it a secret?
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Up to you if you wish to initiate anything, just please be careful. Love happens when it is ready; it may take time, but when it happens, it will be made clear why the wait was as long as it was. Do you both have compatible life goals, do you both communicate well, can you both be clear about feelings and thoughts? These are questions that may help to reflect on for people you are interested in dating. If she is not your one, that means another amazing person for you will be in your life. Take your time, and remember you are loved *hug* 💖
ReplyShe and I share the same dream; to become an actress. Yeah, I would say we communicate well we are always with each other. I have trouble with talking about my feelings or my thought never come out clearly and neither can she. I really want to be with her but I don't know if she wants to be with me:(
ReplyIt is completely up to you. Just know that even if you get rejected you will feel relief from not keeping a secret.
ReplyYeah, I guess that is true. I was thinking I would tell her on the last day of school (today) but I decided to tell her on the first day of next year.
ReplyI know you want our opinions but I think you should listen to your head and heart. I say go for it but be careful. As you said that she talks to you about all her crushes and your never mentioned, correct? Well maybe she doesn't want to tell you that she likes you. That's what I think but I'm not sure. I hope everything goes well for you and Chloe. What do you think is best for you? Are you ready to tell her how you feel? Confidence up? Just keep you head high even if it goes bad. That's an if, not saying it will but if things don't go well then it's going to be okay. Things get better as time passes. You might not think that yet but just wait some time then it will appear.
ReplyYeah, I am just so scared to tell her. My parents told me I might not be able to go back to in-person next year but I really hope so lol. If I don't go back I won't have another chance to tell her.
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