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Damn it
2 years ago · 6
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Me and this boy were friends since 3rd grade, and we're in 11th grade now. And yes I did have feelings for him. I always wanted to tell him how I feel but it didn't feel right. Besides he didn't seem the type to date(to me). It turns out he's gay and is dating this amazing boy and whenever I see them they look so happy. But I can't get rid of those damn feelings for him. He's hot, funny, sweet, smart. A lot of people liked him, though he wasn't really the social type. He's still my friend but I feel depressed whenever we talk or I see him with his boyfriend. He did ask me what's wrong because I look sad. And like the idiot I am, I told him it was nothing. (I'm not a homophobe btw) How do I get rid of those feelings for him??
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You tell him directly. That’s the only way your gonna get this weight off your chest. Plain and simple. And what ever happens after that just happens but you’ll feel better after you do it.
ReplyIt can be tough. Maybe notice the things about him that you're not attracted to and keep reminding yourself that he's already with someone and there's nothing you can do. If you like him, be happy for him that he found someone. It's hard to control how you feel about somebody, so don't blame yourself if your feelings don't go away immediately. Just know that there's other amazing people out there you could fall for if you give yourself the chance.
ReplyI don't know if this will help but you can try telling him about your feelings like say the next time your hanging out tell him that you used to like him (even though you still do) see what he reacts
ReplyThat's the thing, I'm scared if I tell him that I liked him or that I still like him, I'm scared he might laugh at me or not wanna be my friend anymore
Replydon't think about the negative things that will think of how your relationship will build up!
ReplyI don't know if this will help but you can try telling him about your feelings like say the next time your hanging out tell him that you used to like him (even though you still do) see what he reacts
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